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PostPosted: Sat Jan 07, 2012 4:10 am 
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Ive heard that in the pick up a person should never go out just purely on the intent to pick up. I am really into day game and most times i dont go out to alot of places that are good for picking up woman unless i have to go to those places things such as malls, coffee shops, parks and places like that. My question is i know to be a good pua i should be out gaming every day but if dont go out purely for pick up i wont be able to have as many opportunities as i would like. What would you guys suggest to do to fix this problem should i change my ways and start purely going out just for pick up?


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Ive heard that in the pick up a person should never go out just purely on the intent to pick up. I am really into day game and most times i dont go out to alot of places that are good for picking up woman unless i have to go to those places things such as malls, coffee shops, parks and places like that. My question is i know to be a good pua i should be out gaming every day but if dont go out purely for pick up i wont be able to have as many opportunities as i would like. What would you guys suggest to do to fix this problem should i change my ways and start purely going out just for pick up?
There are a couple ways to answer this question.

One, everyone should run their own race. It make take you 5 years or 20, but at some point you will no longer want to develop your game, you'll find a girl you're happy with or date according to a certain pattern, and you will focus on other things. Everyone will get to this point, there is no telling when it will come.

So following that, the rate that you make progress isn't THAT important. You can progress slowly, but as long as you keep improving, ten years down the road, you'll probably be happy about your success with women (not speaking from experience).

If you want to improve faster, yes, go out specifically for pick up. Otherwise, you will probably do better with individual girls, have less anxiety, and the situations will appear more spontaneous, if you are going out for other purposes, and pick up is a secondary goal.

I can't find the balance here for you, but maybe the key is to develop a very active lifestyle, that takes you out of your house almost non-stop. You'll always be busy, never need to go out to pick up girls, but you will. And you will improve at a faster rate than you have been.

Again, find the balance for yourself. Make yourself happy from as many angles as is possible.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 07, 2012 5:01 am 
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Ive heard that in the pick up a person should never go out just purely on the intent to pick up. I am really into day game and most times i dont go out to alot of places that are good for picking up woman unless i have to go to those places things such as malls, coffee shops, parks and places like that.
Do you go out wearing your tennis outfit and carry your tennis racket not with the intent of playing tennis? Do you wear your football gear and carry your helmet not with the intent of playing football?

You go out with an intent, a desire to get better and enjoy the sport. And you carry your best self and your gears to make you successful at it.
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I am really into day game and most times i dont go out to alot of places that are good for picking up woman unless i have to go to those places things such as malls, coffee shops, parks and places like that.
If you want to play football you go to a football field. If you want to meet women, go where they are in abundance.
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............and start purely going out just for pick up?
Do you still want an answer?


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Depends on you bro! Personally I go out sometimes just to talk to girls. In the beginning I considered it like going to the gym, I'm just workin' the muscles.


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