Ok first off, I would be in the mind set that you have nowhere to sleep, and your intentions are to find a bed ( a girls bed) I often when younger would thrust myself into this predicament. ( I would leave my friends, strand myself, just to force myself to work hard on finding a bed)

But this doesn't matter, if a woman is down, you can fuck anywhere, especially if its a warm climate. Although a beach may seem romantic and ideal for sex, it really isn't, sand can be a huge issue and often make sex painful and uncomfortable ( if the beach is one of your options, be sure to bring 2 extra blankets as well as a sleeping bag, place both blankets on the sand, then both of you go into the sleeping bag)


If you are going somewhere that is full of tourist, this can be extremely fun. Focus on the woman, don't worry about your sleeping arrangements.

Tourist mentality is amazing for pick up, there is an extreme amount of positive energy and women are much more free with everything. I find the further away women are from home, the more free they become. ( great for one night stands)

Even women in relationships will have sexual encounters while on vacation. ( this is a sad truth)

Keeping the tourist mentality in mind, you can be a little more aggressive with sexual advances, a great draw for end of the night encounters is the " walk on the beach" it's a great way to get a girl on her own. To test her comfort with you while on the beach, you can suggest going in the water. Be sure to bring towels and blankets.

In summary:

Keep focus on getting into a bed, ( being forced can often trigger your survival response and trigger your inner wit) if you have created comfort and sexual interest, do not be afraid to tell her you have nowhere to sleep. Telling her that you decided to come there on a whim, a completely spontaneous action. ( younger women love this quality in a man)

Be friendly to everyone. The "lost puppy" angle can work very well in this situation.

I once stayed in Daytona beach for an extra week ( after my friends went home) with nowhere at all to stay. I relied on my wit and survival instinct. I never once had to sleep outside.

I don't doubt that this is at all plausible, I'm just curious of when you started having sex and how has your performance been affected over the years? Surely you've witnessed a decrease in sexual performance due to having sex so many times. If you say that your performance hasn't been affected than I have every right to be a bit suspcious of this claim.

.......You seem quite convinced that I do not know what I am talking about. .....

NO, dont feel this way. ON the Contrary I've said repeatedly that I think you know a few things about being social and interacting with women.

Using your posture to create Kino, making her lean into you, isolating her in a fun way etc.. all of this is good.

You can even charge for your advises and this would help a lot of virgins atleast lose their V Card. But your method lacks sexual confidence. A few of your followers here after a while would be able to alter and move away from your style once they have gained enough sexual confidence - till then they could follow your method step by step.

Do not feel insulted because that is not the intent. But SkillAddict911, instead of claiming to be a Guru, why dont you be open minded and ask some more experienced guys about how to take things sexual once she is hooked.

After isolating her and all those fun things you are just leaving her with a high buying temperature. Any good even regular guy would walk in after that and close the deal for you.

Next time try this once she is touching your chest and leaning in look strait into her eyes and give her a quick peck on the lips and then go back to continue talking. Try this - once she is following your lead play with her hair - just brushing it a little, or flick her earings, hold her palm and circle with your thumb right in the middle applying a little pressure and then run the thumb outwards towards her tip of the figure.

Try this - after you have your hand on her hips and she has her hand on your shoulder take your hand offand next time just place it for a few seconds on her sides right under the arms and check for compliance.

I'll leave you now with your followers in this thread. Dont feel insulted but believe me you can learn a lot about taking things sexual by simply asking some of the experienced guys in here.

Hey man! Really like what you write.

I want to ask you something, but I am not going to ask for your advice, rather your wisdom. Basicly I want your own abstracy thoughts on a certain question.

What is the true nature of being an attracive man?

Easier ways to phrase this question might be: what does it mean to be a seducer? What is the nature of being desirable?

Take your time to answer, and answer with whatever you like. I´m not looking for motivation or advice, simply inspiration.

Take care!

I really don't have time to for another one of these meaningless back and forth banters. You did not answer any questions I asked you. If you cannot see the bigger picture, I am not going to sit here and try to explain it to you.

I don't doubt that this is at all plausible, I'm just curious of when you started having sex and how has your performance been affected over the years? Surely you've witnessed a decrease in sexual performance due to having sex so many times. If you say that your performance hasn't been affected than I have every right to be a bit suspcious of this claim.

NO, dont feel this way. ON the Contrary I've said repeatedly that I think you know a few things about being social and interacting with women.

Using your posture to create Kino, making her lean into you, isolating her in a fun way etc.. all of this is good.

You can even charge for your advises and this would help a lot of virgins atleast lose their V Card. But your method lacks sexual confidence. A few of your followers here after a while would be able to alter and move away from your style once they have gained enough sexual confidence - till then they could follow your method step by step.

Do not feel insulted because that is not the intent. But SkillAddict911, instead of claiming to be a Guru, why dont you be open minded and ask some more experienced guys about how to take things sexual once she is hooked.

After isolating her and all those fun things you are just leaving her with a high buying temperature. Any good even regular guy would walk in after that and close the deal for you.

Next time try this once she is touching your chest and leaning in look strait into her eyes and give her a quick peck on the lips and then go back to continue talking. Try this - once she is following your lead play with her hair - just brushing it a little, or flick her earings, hold her palm and circle with your thumb right in the middle applying a little pressure and then run the thumb outwards towards her tip of the figure.

Try this - after you have your hand on her hips and she has her hand on your shoulder take your hand offand next time just place it for a few seconds on her sides right under the arms and check for compliance.

I'll leave you now with your followers in this thread. Dont feel insulted but learn a lot about taking things sexual and elevate your game to new heights by simply asking or reading threads and then practicing the methods of some of the experienced guys in here

I can't speak for everyone, but yes I have noticed a significant decrease in my sexual performance. My skills have not decreased, There is something to learn from every woman. What has decreased is my desire to please. I have noticed over the last 5 or so years that I have become pretty selfish. When I started out I used to be all about the woman, I loved being able to completely rock their world. It was my thing. But as the years went on this desire dropped significantly.

After having so much sex, it can get boring, there is only so many positions, angles, techniques and styles you can try. Don't get me wrong, it's still fun for me. And I still need it bad. But my true passion and intrigue lies withing the Seduction.

In all honesty, I am all about the art of pick up. My desire to do the seduction has never changed. I truly am addicted to this. Seduction is constantly different, as every woman is different, so is the seduction. This is something I feel I will never become sick of. There was a time when It had gotten boring as it seemed to be too easy and I was constantly looking to be challenged more. But now that I am 38 and getting old. I have always looked way younger then my age and this was an awesome attribute for picking up. I am now 38 soon to be 39 and even though i look younger then my age, it is still catching up to me faster and faster. The beauty of this is now I have a new challenge. Younger women. I now appear to most to be too old for them, this is my new challenge.

In summary:

Yes sex has lost it's luster, I am constantly seeking something different. I should be concerned about the women i bed, but in all honesty I am not. I am so intertwined with the art of pick up, that I really don't care about pleasing the women i am with. It is selfish yes. But 99% of the women I am with, I have no intentions of being with again and again. No matter how hot they are.

I am however reaching the twilight of all of this. I can see myself retiring in the near future. That is why I am here, to pass down my knowledge and experience.

dude keep your disagreement between you and sex addict, do not use my name, ok, dude, i am warning you respectfully, learn to be respectful, learn how to attack the subject and not the messenger, and there is not need to mock mark, as i said keep my name out of it... P.S. link when you get a chance any of your field and lay reports, thanks!

Sex addict i disagree, my sexual performance has improve do to more experience, but yes the desire has gone down... good stuff!