Every since I've gotten into PUA, I have gotten 100% more confident in my self and my abilities but once again, I have hit a road block! I'd like to say thanks to all those folks who have advice me about past situations before .

To make a long story short, this girl I was dating and having a great time with decided to give her ex BF of 4 years one more chance. The guy simply wont leave her alone and keeps insisting for her ot come back to him. I guess she finally gave in after 4 months of him begging (his quite the looser that knows he prob wont get a girl as smart and good looking like her again) She sent me a text the lastnight saying that because of his constant presense, she was persuaded to give him one more chance...and that I should know this. I think it's all good to mention that her ex is well known to be a huge douche bag/dick. She's even told me herself that she think she is and it's one of the main reasons she broke up their 2+ year relationship. But I don't get why she would even consider going back to something like that... women. I don't think I'll ever get them. ..

This blindedsided me as I thought everythign was great. The catch is that this girl is very very ver attracted to me. I know this for a fact as she always compliments the way I look and has told other folks we work with that she thinks the world about me. She even did this today in the work place... (keep in mind she has already told me she is giving this loser one more chance yet she continues to tell me this sort of stuff thru text and person...) ...



what should my next move be? Let her go and move on? Keep trying to get the goods from her? Knowing shes very attracted to me....

Or should I just put my cards on the table and tell her it's either me or the highway ? I wouldn't mind dating the girl more seriously to be honest.


any advice at all is greatly appreciated. I'am really hardpress at the moment on this situation. I

There's plenty of girls out there, you're the prize. I think you need to tell her that what's happening is not on. Telling her that its either you or him is the way to go. You're the one in charge, you dont deserve to be a 'second choice', you should be first choice every time. That's my thoughts anyways

yeah man... I think I'am really leaning towards that side. It's some real bullshit that she's trying to have everything at once. I don't get why women's mind work the way they do.. perhaps it's a fear of them to be alone? The fear of venturing into something that is unknown?

I'am planning on talking to her tonight