Hey guys , I got a situation. I'm dating this girl for a month now and we both like each other. Had sex last monday and after that I haven't seen her for 2 days now and we just texted a little. The text-phase is getting old and I feel that I need to come up with something else to spice up this thing we got going on. However, I feel that I want to get some security now. We both like each other and I want her to make me my official GF.
I don't want to come over needy so I was wondering how you guys would solve this problem? Also, my last text-message to her was a little needy ( I miss your presence) and I want to stop with the texting thing as it ruins the spontaneity of the process. I'm losing my alpha-male behavior now that I really started caring about this girl..

So what's the best ( alpha) way to make her my gf? What do I say and how?
I hope you can help.

Cheers

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Losers got an excuse, winners got a plan.

Don't do or say anything.. if she's at all interested, then she'll definitely bring it up (probably right after sex, when you're at your most vulnerable to female persuasion). In the meantime, just give her lots of orgasms. Also, don't be too over-bearing. You'll just come off as needy and scare her away. At this stage you should only make a point to see her once or twice a week tops, unless she initiates and asks to see you more often.

Furthermore, you should really only be texting her to handle logistics (i.e. where and when you're going to meet up next).

-Wolf

Youre not going to be able to keep up an act indefinately, so there comes a point where you have to just be you. This doesnt mean you have to be the old afc you, you can still be interesting without always having to come up with new material to keep her interested.

Like wolf said, a good supply of orgasms always keeps a girl interested, and most of the time they will bring up a relationship. Theres no need for ou to do it and by her coming to you, you keep that image you have going intact.

Read this link and apply it to your everyday life, its the best post ive read on how to apply game to your everyday life without constantly running lines on a girl.

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