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| belal | PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 2:05 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jan 05, 2011 1:40 pm Posts: 102 | | HB7.5
We have been friends for a few months now. Has a bf of 2 years.
Today i was at uni and she messaged me saying that she saw me, so we meet up after class and hangout in the computer lab and its only us.
We spend maybe 2 hours in lab and during this time things get deep she massages my shoulder ( i asked for it ) and she opens up about how she is adopted and stuff. I run boy destroyer technique and finally find out she has cheated on her boyfriend.During the beginning of relationship and he found out blah blah and she also told me how he is controlling and stuff like that basically she pointed out his negative traits (good sign)
We went to return a movie and while walking towards the stop i grabbed her a few times held her hands, she wont mind for a few seconds or for like a minute and then move my hand. We board the tram and i sit on her lap for a few minutes. We get down and she returns movie. She kept asking me two questions very often: Where do you wana go and what do u wana do? my answer to the 2nd was always im doing you lolz
We head to park, we sit very close. I run my fingers on the back of her neck and seems like shes enjoying. I blow her hair she does the same back. I tried kissing her but she did not let me and she said she knew i wanted to kiss her for the past 2 hours lol, tried few times but i failed. She accompanied me to my stop and this one part she grabs my arm and leads me for a few seconds and she also hugs me before leaving.
I felt a deep connection with her and I enjoyed her company. I dont know how to
take it from here onwards and do you guys think shes interested in me?
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| adam emre | PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 2:19 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sat Dec 08, 2007 7:37 pm Posts: 80 | | She seems interested, but also very conscious of her boyfriend. She's obviously experienced a lot of guilt through having cheated on her boyfriend previously and does not want to experience that again, knowledgeably.
You say you've been friends with this girl for a few months, so she probably sees your actions as potential boyfriend material rather than a short fling. At thi point you should be careful at whether you want to continue for a relationship, otherwise you'd just crush her with a quick fling.
Continue as you are, it's likely you'll break through eventually, just keep escalating with comfort.
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| belal | PostPosted: Fri Jan 06, 2012 9:00 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jan 05, 2011 1:40 pm Posts: 102 | | Thank you so much Adam, I knew that must have been the reason why she did not let me kiss her. I was just not sure what to do after that situation. Anyone have any other ideas, suggestions, criticism lol
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