Alright so this girl calls me up and asks me to go to hooters with her,the girl I'm w/ is easily an 8 so were there and I'm talking to her and of course the waitress comes up, and suprisingly our waitress was one of the better looking ones also an 8. So the 3 of us are talking and she sat w/ us the entire time we were there and talked to us about her life and basically topics that were non-work related or appropriate (they weren't your average sports conversation like they are suppose to have at hooters) anyway a tons of IOI's from this girl but of course shes a hired gun so I called her out on it a little bit sorta as a shit test to see if she was sincere or just doing her job.

The girl I'm with at the end says then "she seems really cool, like someone i could be friends w/" and I said "yeah I agree, we should ask her to hang out sometime, especially since she just moved here she doesnt prolly have a ton of friends"

So when the waitress comes back I said "have you made a lot of friends in the area yet" her reply, no not really, I said "if you want sometime you should hang out w/ us, its not gonna get you more tips but you can meet some people in the area" and shes like "omg yea that would be great do you guys have myspace" she gave us her full name and email address to find her. I did, she added me, I haven't talked to her since that though. Oh and another thing she failed to mention she has a BF still from back home, another IOI.

So w/ that scenario my questions are this:

1) How do I effectivley use the first girl as a pawn w/o offending her, looking like a player or F-ing up my chances w/ her
2) Was her myspace closing us a F-off type response since it wasn't a # or are some people really just more into myspace than a phone.
3) Do I message her on myspace or just leave it up to her? The last thing I want to do is fall into the category of everyother guy that walks into hooters to try and "pick up" a girl, any tips from getting her to come out w/ us sometime w/o looking like everyother guy.

Does the girl you went with know anything about PU or that you are a PUA?

Are you involved with the first girl more then friends?

Regardless id say you should setup something with the original girl, and tell her your gonna invite the girl from the hooters too. I think you messageing the hooters chick and inviteing her out with you guys is appropriate and when you guys are out just be friendly with the hooters chick, DHV some, kino (plutonic), and neg.

Hopefully you have been up front with the original girl and told her your not looking for an exclusive relationship. If so get hooters chick's number at the end of the night and later setup a more personal outting.

In any case hope this helps.

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nah the first girl doesn't know anything about PU.

See normally in that situation I wouldn't have persued the hooters girl just because I was w/ the first and I could always come back later w/ a guy friend or something and get her. The only reason I even asked her about hanging out is because girl 1 suggested it. I have no idea if the first girl is intersted or not, shes one of those thats in a mess of other relationships (plural) and so it like if shit happens it happens if it does't no loss.

Not even relating to this situation but in general a girl is used as a Pivot when she knows what you're trying to do, a Pawn is a girl that is unknowly being used to help you pick up girls right?

Any examples anyone of how to effectivley use a pawn, I use to think girls dont like knowing you hang around alot of other girls cuz it makes you look like a player or is this AFC type thinking?

In this situation stay leveled headed. It wouldn't be good to let the girls get too friendly especially if you want to bed one of them. In the event that you hang out with both again you will have to act like it's a normal 2 set. Using the push and pull technique establish some light kino and negs with the Hooters girl. Meanwhile the one you went on the date with will try to get your attention. To maximize your efficiency sit in between them, be the focal point. Don't ignore either for long, use push and pull on both when needed. Bounce to a few places maybe bar, to small place for dinner. Lead them both, show them the Alpha Male in you. By the end of a good night you can probably pull both.

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Desmaro.