So I've been out of game for two weeks cause was with family for xmas/new year and could not go into field. That gave me a lot of free time to read material on the forum tho and my understanding of it so i've improved a lot. Adding this two things made me really eager to go out last night and do proper game
OK to start with it was a long night - started with gaming a hb 6 bartender at a bar i went to just buy some cheap drinks before going to the club. After I've ordered I've started the convo with something i read on the forum recently
me:"Being behind the bar is double standart - you get to meet so many people but you don't get to know them a lot."
After that the conversation just flow. She told me her bf dumped her recently after sleeping with one of her best friends and we had some commonalities giving me iois and kinoing me (which was hard for me cause she was behind the bar). When I qualified her with this qualifier (i read about in online game section from Fuze)
me:"So what is the most adventurous thing you did for a guy?"
She told me she did it in a park and we had some interesting sex convo. After that number closed her and asked for logistics(Learned from JSmooth's videos). So i began building sexual tension through eye contact and pauses( learned from a DVD of gamler i've watched recently) I told her i would like to get closer to her before i go. So she came on the other side of the bar and i kissed her on the cheeks 4 times was going for the mouth but she said there are cameras everywhere.
Instead of going directly to the club i went to another bar cause I was thinking that I will bang the bartender. There i started gaming two girls. A two set is the hardest to game !!! I only got kiss on the cheek before we split up and the conversation wasn't really interesting that's why i skip it. One of them was actress and i was really atracted to her but couldn't isolate her so i just number closed them 2 and went to the club.
My club game needs improving I did absolutely shit in there for the 1 hour that i spend before i got message from the bartender that she's outside so i went out and just started making out with her and escalating. Started maoning mmm oh baby it's so good yeah babe and teasing while kissing( both skills learned from skills360
)
asked her for logistics but she couldn't spend the night with me cause of tmrw plans. I didn't care about them kept telling her that i'm taking her home or going with her but she insisted not on the first night so i said ok took her into the taxi and she hinted to me that she'll be calling me sometime next week.
So i went back to the club. AGAIN ONLY BLOWN OUTS there. I spend like 3 hours overall and i couldn't even proper start escalate on any of them. I guess it was cause of the pressure and i was thinking " come on man you have 1 hour to find a NSA for tonight" instead of having fun.
After the club closed i tried my luck outside but no luck again so I started walking home. On the way I notice hb 8 going in the other direction. I take out my phone pretending im doing smth(last time i was randomly stoped by a girl offering me sex i was writing down my sticking points on my phone). She comes closer say 6 meters away and i opened:
"hey, have any1 tryied it with u tonight with cheesy lines, i'm from the pick up police."
No response from her just a shallow smile. I continue and start walking with her as i'm thinking "no way i'm i'm going to close her". So I ask for name and then asking about logistics: where she have been, why going home alone, where is she gonna stay, where is she from. Turns out that she is not from Manchester, came for her friend's birthday party, staying with her family for tonight and going back to London tomorrow. She asks me for directions which I take as IOI since she just met me... So i say:
"Stop!" -she complies.(complience - learned from pumpington)
"I've been in London for xmas and new year(true) and i'm going there next week (not true) but u are beautiful and i dont wana wait to see u again."
Number close her. She complies with everything. So i start escalate. K close. Making out for a couple of minutes on the street. I say "u're coming with me."(maintaining this dominance- learned from pumpington again) and she drops her belongings on the ground. As i'm picking them up for her she asks where do i live... I just take her to the nearest cash machine( which happens to be across the steet lucky me xD) and take the taxi( the only one arround
). In the taxi was kinda rushing cause she told me
her: " where is all that rush for ?" Fast forward to my place.
This is the
interesting and
important bit for me where i need to improve part and i want u guys to bear with me i really need help here. See she is the 1st girl that I picked up after learning game. I was about to make sex with her and i didnt know her before so I was slightly nervous. She was hb8 tho so I didn't care- beautiful eyes, body, long blond hair, big(tasty)boobs. There is no reason i can't get hard. But still I get it to some point where it is hard just can't keep it like that..
So there i have her laying on my tiny student accommodation bed in her bra and knickers. Kising/biting her neck/sucking her boobs with her bra on(technique for reducing lmr i read about). I cant take her bra off cause i'm nervous (tried 3 times) so she does it for me. I'm getting lil bit more nervous but continue lkissing/biting/sucking. As i go down i get lmr. So just continue kis/lick/bite. Lmr again.... Third time lucky tho.
See for some reason I find it hard for me to get inside her. I tried too many times which put some enormous pressure on me and got me seriously nervous. We change a few positions. And every time i'm about to get inside of her she kinda either pushes me with her hands or backs up with her body just enough so i cant start the penetration. I go soft/hard a few times (i even find it funny and some uncontrollable giggles came out of my mouth
) - getting more and more nerveous but she sucks/rubs me - basically did everything to get me hard(showing me she want me to fuck her).
I get hard and finally inside her and start the banging and she still have her arms on my body ready to push me away but i'm just keep going anyway starting to enjoy it she does too i can feel it. Then she said to stop and i stopped. I just sit on the end of the bed and do nothing, not showing that i'm frustrated or anything(anti lmr technique i learned from "The Game").
She starts caressing me. I start to escalate again this time till i'm hard as rock. Start fucking her again and she sais:"It just wont happen. Anything but this(sex)". So i stop and tell her to suck me off. She starts doing but i can feel her teeth(my second bj but this time more painful teeth). I can bear it for a while but i get a bit frustrated and hell loads of nervous and the words"u're biting too much" slips out of my mouth.... You can imagine what hapens next. She said :"I'm not biting ur fucking dick" awkward silence, she puts her clothes on I call her a taxi but make small talk on the way to the front gate and start gaming her again. Attraction is lost tho and we only make out till the taxi came.
Now I'm not that stupid and I know my dick (even though it's big) isn't the actual problem... I'm 20 years old and this was my 4th time having sex. Before I would have the same problem (cannot penetrate) but just ignored it. Now that I've learned game though I'm gonna be doing it with only girls I've just met since I'm after NSAs for now and the pressure would be bigger than making it with girls i've known for a while (which is easier). So if u guys have any feedback or advice I would love to hear them. Ideally I would love someone to give me some material to read about so I can improve my sex techniques (If anyone knows the multiple orgasm technique from "The Game" that would be perfect
) I'm finaly at this stage on my game doing it for 3 months now and start puling hbs i can feel my confidence has grown a lot and i keep improving but this problem is putting me down and the feeling is horrible. I'm not that bothered about it since it was a great learning experience cause I had it b4 with other girls but just ignored it but now i'm not going to find peace before I find a solution to my problem. I mean COME ON I had this hb 8 naked on my bed and fucked it up. Please help me ou guys!!!
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