I've seen a lot of discussion about guys approaching girls who appear to be friendly, or interested in them, the so-called "warm" approaches. If you get interest pre-approach, then great, it's going to increase your success rate - you'll be able to spend more of your time on these instead of "cold" approaches.

However, I haven't seen much information about how to identify the girls who are out at the bar/club looking for sex before the approach - I'm sure some guys are better than others at knowing what signs to look out for, and how to spot them.

Here's my $0.02:
- women are usually more willing to hook up when they're travelling so look for girls who look like they are from another city/country
- women who are looking around them trying to catch guys' attention, especially on the dance floor
- girls who appear to be on their own (?)

I bet there are a lot more.

If anyone has good information about this, either from your own experience, or if you have links to other threads/articles about this, I'd love to hear it.

Most women travelling usually have a phobia of going home with locals in an unfamiliar country (well at least the smart ones do) for this reason alone I wouldn't think travelling girls are easier unless you yourself are a fellow traveller or you are able to establish a lot of trust in a short time period.

That being said, make sure when you hit on foreign girls you always say your place is 5 minutes away, then when you take them home if it happens to be more then it's forgivable as long as it is within about 20 mins, then you can just blame traffic or the taxi driver.


Some signs to look out for, for girls hoping to get lucky...
-Recently shaved legs.
-Sexy underwear. (if you catch a glance up their dress)
-Girls dancing solo or in two's.
-Drunk girls (don't feel bad, quite often, they are drinking because they want to be picked up) Obviously if they are off their tits then they are out of bounds.
-Hair extensions, most girls only put them in on special occasions.
-Dresses that show lots of cleavage (or push up bras).

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Thanks Kieran - those are great tips.

Good point about girls travelling - I guess they would be more careful (unless they're not smart.... or from the UK ). I was thinking more about from another city rather than another country, where she knows she's unlikely to bump into you again so she's not as worried about social pressure and looking like a slut, and may be in "party mode" if she's on vacation

I completely agree with the first point, in summer on the island where I live, there are an enormous amount of girls looking for have fun with guys. And my island is not famous as well Ibiza or Mykonos, but when girls are in holidays specially on an island I don't know why but they become more "friendly".
On the second point I would do a distinction, because there are two kind of girls on my opinion: the ones who are shy and want not to attract attention, but stay alone, around the dance floor searching an eye contact; and the ones that are a volcano and go on the dance floor to be seen.
I would add that also the way the girls wear themselves: for example if I go in a club, or a bar and see a girl with fluorescent miniskirt and shocking violet t-shirt, I think that she want to capture my attenction… what do you think about my last point?

Well to be honest andreami I'm inclined to think that some girls just have their own fashion style and girls who like attention will always go after it whether they want to have sex or not.

Most girls wont change their entire style just because they have their period or a yeast infection etc. sorry to go there but those are quite often the reasons why some girls just wont go home with a guy, then again sometimes they do...

I don't want to be one of those guys that says that if girls dress slutty then they definitely want it because there are always exceptions to that rule and as you said some just like the attention, however I would think that there would be a marginal difference in favour of the slutty dressing girls being more slutty... but on the other hand you might be better off going for the non-slutty looking ones just because they are often overlooked by sleazy guys and therefore have less options.

Personally I tend to stay away from the really slutty looking girls because from my experience they tend to have a lot more attitude and bitchiness and when I am out I want to have a good time, I don't want to be babysitting some trashy slut who I don't even like as a person especially when there are total babes there who dress decently and have a personality.

At the end of the day experience has taught me that most girls are open to sex, even if they say they would never do a one night stand, I have gone home with plenty of girls who claimed that and just because they are not looking for a one night stand doesn't mean it wont happen if they meet a guy who excites them enough to make them stray out of their comfort zone.

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one who was looking to hook up and i ended up going home with her was like in early thirties, she kept solo dancing and coming up to guys and girls saying a few words and leaving them.