Hey guys, I've been working at a restaurant for about 6 months now. There is one girl who I hit it off with in the beginning, but then I got friend-zoned.

I got pissed about it and stopped talking to her, now I starting going out again with the work crew to bars and I'm getting good feedback. Since then there has been another new girl who I started chasing, but shes out of my league, so I'm thinking it would be good to just practice my flirting skills with her, or could that backfire if the other chick hears or see's me do it?

Now this is another issue, i'm trying to get into the social circle. How exactly do I get in. I was thinking of having parties at my place and selectively inviting people, would that up my social value and get me in? even though i know they would just be using me for a place to party. What do I do if after my parties the queen bee still doesn't respect me, do I invite her to the next party or not? would she convince people not to show up if I left her out?

TL:DR Friend-zone but spark was reignited, whats the next move and how do you get into a social circle? having parties?

Thanks

Way to PRIZE a girl and put her before you. Your attitude needs some work.

You don't want to be the guy, people just use for a house party... You get no respect and you deff don't get laid out of it.. We used guys like that in high school all the time. They only threw parties to be 'cool'.. Which is stupid, because if you were cool you wouldn't need to do anything but be yourself.

About the other chick.. Check this out

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