I fell for this girl..I fell hard. And now I'm sitting here drunk, without her next to me, and its driving me mad. How do I get over this? Where do I turn now?

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"If you're not living life on the edge, then you're taking up too much space."

Whenever you find yourself saying "I want ___ back" like "I want love back" or "I want that girl with big tits back" or whatever, reframe it into something like "I want love again" or "I want A girl with big tits again."

They say there's plenty of fish in the sea. Fucking move forward instead of dwelling. There's a GFTOW solution to oneitis for a reason.

Hard times bro... hard times. You'll get over her. Usually I'd say getting drunk is not the best thing you can do, but it helped me too to get over my ex. But don't drink alone! That's dangerous. One thing is that there's noone looking for you and you might do really stupid things, or have some accident, and the other is drinking alone is the way to go towards alcoholism. Call some friend up. Tell him you're having a hard time because of your break-up and you'd appreciate if he'd go out for a little drinking with you. And don't talk about her. Tell your friend to make sure this topic won't be brought up more than:

-Oh man I feel sorry for you.
-Thanks buddy. Now let's get drunk.

I'm sure you have billions of other things to talk about with your friends.

Don't worry. You'll find someone else. Someone better. It really takes some time to get over someone but to shorten it you must push yourself(also, it helps if your friends push you) to go out and have quality fun time. So your mind can accept the fact that your life is complete and pretty awesome even without her.

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What I like in life is nothing more but living it.

Ha guess what man.. no matter how many post you make about this.. the ONLY thing that is going to help you is... time.. no one can tell you how to get over something like that. But you gotta tough it out. Go out with friends,meet new people. But only in time will you feel better.. best wishes man. Love ya bro.

Word.

welcome in the community .. Now you need to start Respect humans and Humanity .. and Man Kind ..

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Sorry for the OP to sound a bit cynical here, but.

I followed this solution once after a break up with a girl I loved. Then, well..... I hit the 10 women milestone. But I was still in love with the ex? I still loved her unique sense of humor, her laugh.... blah blah yea i wont go on...

I think its a pretty shallow cop out to say that 10 lays will somehow make you get over a feeling of love for a really special woman in your life and all the unique things you loved about her.....

Im interested to know how exactly does 10 other lays make you get over a woman? If what you loved was sex with her, then yea maybe... But if you genuinely loved the girl for who she was.... then I dont think so.

OP Take some time, and work on yourself for a while.

Truth is, you may always have a part of you that loves her... she is unique and irreplaceable.

Love can be great and then it can suck. Always hope for the best in love but be prepared for the worst.

It happens to the best of us man. You will grow into a stronger person from this, and you may not care for this now, but soon enough you will find love again with someone new! =) and Im excited for you!

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I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly, and all those who look down on me I'm tearin down your balcony, no if ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he

Bang all of her girlfriends

that can only start a huge shit fight.

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I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly, and all those who look down on me I'm tearin down your balcony, no if ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he