ah the relationship is solid enough for people who been casual for about 4 months--in otherwords i trust her in that she isnt a user or female player and she is honest in her dealings and is genuinely short of cash.

with the paying--numerous times ive told her no big deal i can cover it no prob---but she reverts back to anoying form with this---for instance--went to lunch last week total bill came to bout 20--i said ill get this---next she starts ''are u sure are u sure bla bla--ill pay half ''and she starts looking in her bag for change---so im kinda getting irritated by this so i said ive got it---so i go up to the guy with the bill--ive paid hes handing me the change and next the girl is poking me with a five note and a 2 coin saying this is for her share--in front of the guy ive just paid--its annoying and embarrassing tbh---and the quantity of money involved is pretty negligable---this kinda thing happens a bit

[quote="Herne"]ah the relationship is solid enough for people who been casual for about 4 months--in otherwords i trust her in that she isnt a user or female player and she is honest in her dealings and is genuinely short of cash.

with the paying--numerous times ive told her no big deal i can cover it no prob---but she reverts back to anoying form with this---for instance--went to lunch last week total bill came to bout 20--i said ill get this---next she starts ''are u sure are u sure bla bla--ill pay half ''and she starts looking in her bag for change---so im kinda getting irritated by this so i said ive got it---so i go up to the guy with the bill--ive paid hes handing me the change and next the girl is poking me with a five note and a 2 coin saying this is for her share--in front of the guy ive just paid--its annoying and embarrassing tbh---and the quantity of money involved is pretty negligable---this kinda thing happens a bit[/quote]

lol well.. i'd probably move on to a chick who isn't so finicky with money.. has a job, isn't broke.. is up on her feet, so to speak

LOL--nah i'll keep her around for a while shes hot....i think its God having a bit of fun at my expense lol...before this i went to a phase of meeeting nothing but ones epecting REAL high maintenance lol and all bills paid...which quite simply wasnt gonna happen...so i half jokingly asked him to keep those kind well out of my way...so he's sent me the other extreme...be careful what ya wish for lol...but at least she aint a user so i dont have it bad at all