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phoenixj
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Ok i'm gunna going in to gr8 detail here as I really wanna give you an idea of the situation.

I met a girl (HB8....which is very good for me:) from a class I take. We get on well, I get good vibes from her so I suggest we go for a coffee one time (indirect date) she accepts and we go for a coffee a few days later.

We meet @ Starbucks and really really hit it off - it went so well. I'm sure of this as we meet at like 1 and we left about 6.15. When we was getting in our respective cars I kissed her on the cheek but I think I could of kissed her properly if tried (I was not 100% sure so basically I bottled kissing and went for her cheek instead)

Anyway i'm feeling good of the situation but don't want to come across too keen so I promised myself not to text for like 3-4 days. However that night she texts me and basically says "Hey can't wait to show you this movie I know you would love!" I text back something like "I would like that!" I also made fun of her textin so soon!
Anyway we text each other a few more times that night and the vibe was good, so i thought in my head "to hell with it" ...I knew she wasn't working the following day so I mentioned to her that I have to get a few Christmas more presents, and did she want to tag along?.....She does not reply. Because she not replied I was hooked on her and I was really waiting for a reply (I kno I shouldn't of been but I was)

In the end I could not wait any longer so I text her the next day (the day I asked we should meet up) and said "I take back my offer of meeting up the weather is too bad" (in fairness it was really bad - it wouldn't of worked out).....she replies within like 45mins and says something like "That's good I've got too much to do anyway lol".....we text each other a few times (30mins between our responses) The texts wans't like the previous night and I was slightly stringing them on a lil more than I was supposed to (only slightly)

The next night I text her (I know I shouldn't) it wasn instant replies to each other. Then I made another mistake I text her "What are you doing on the 27th?" (I knew she wasn't at work....She does not text back lol

I get a message the following morning "Merry Christmas, you have a good night last night etc".....she also put "since i'm working a lot I'll be sleeping most of the day (27th) and then I'm going for a meal in the evening" (no why you ask?)...coz of that I just disregarded the question I asked and text her back and wished her Merry Christmas and said I had a good night etc. She texts back have a great day etc (wanting to end the text conversation - of course it's Christmas day lol) .....I did not see the sign she wanting to end it so I texted her back with a neg but not with a text close of my own either (coming across to her that I may of expected a text back)..which I did not get back btw.

I do not get text back after this and I just kind of accepted I made 1 too many mistakes with her. I was bummed out at first for a couple of days as she was HOT, but hey its always a learning experience and I know what I did wrong with her will not happen again.

She texts me today wishing me a Happy New Year (I was pretty sure it wasn't a text she was sending every1 else as the wording was directed at me).


Ok so what do I text back? If text back at all?? PLEASE HELP!!!



If you're still reading this, thank you and I would appreciate guidance of what to do next and of course the mistakes I made (as I may not be aware of all of them!)

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I think you should text her back wishing her a happy new year, along with an opener of sorts "jealous ex" that way you can engage her in a conversation. then start to neg her and game her like you normally would, at then end of the convo just say your going to the beach or going out to a cool place and she should tag along. See where it goes from there, but don't make it seem as if she is the only girl in your world.

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Hey i really appreciate the reply.. ehat's the "jealous ex opener?"

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The jealous ex opener was created by Styles if I remember right.
you tell this girl that you need her opinion on something, then once she says yeah or okay?

you then go onto to tell her you have a friend who has been seeing a girl for 3 months but he is still friends with his ex. The new girl is starting to get jealous then you ask your target " what would she do in this situation" then you get her opinion and you throw in the twist, you can say " well here is the second part to this question" and you could say " him and the ex still talk at times and he has some innocent photos of her" would this make a difference to your opinion you ask her.

then blah blah blah, you've got the ball rolling and you can take it where ever you want to take it from.

Your the man. Be the man and take control

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Cheers Tetris..Ill keep you posted.....
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Hey man. I first wanna start off by saying, we have all been there with that one girl we didnt wanna mess it up with so dont your not alone. however, you have to realize, this is not the only cool good looking chick in the world. I think you might be putting her on a pedestal for her looks. DONT.

you really need to make sure you dont focus too much on her. start talking to some other girls. even if this main girl is still your primary female target, its best to have so ego boosters stored in your contacts. other than that, just be chill with it.

you also have to realize that in order to keep her, you having to be willing to lose her. very controversial concept, but very true. hope that helps
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bob is right watch out don't let her become your deity. She sounds grgeat relax a little and next time kiss her or just accept her as a friend you can practice on
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Hey phoenixj,

I totally understand the feeling one gets when they make a connection with a person and feels like they really hit off. I don't know what you said/did at starbucks, but what I know is that it worked really well that she was thinking about you enough to text you later on in that night.

So, now that text messaging is not rolling the way you want it too. Why is that?
Well, their are a lot of possibilities that come into play that we(other forum members) just don't know. Like the fact that she may genuinely be busy(it is the holidays, most people are). Whatever it is I don't really care.

What I care about is this. If her seeing you in person WORKS, and when you text her it DOESN"T WORK. Go to what got her in the first place. You obviously need work learning how to text, and this is not the time to practise. You can lose this girl by continuing to text her.

What I recommend...wait 3 days, relax its not the end of the world, in those 3 days do something interesting(go out, hit on other girls whatever it is you do, do it), she'll naturally think about why your not texting her(which in-turn makes her think you actually have a life-important), next CALL HER on the third day and just catch up with her, hey, how was the holidays blah blah blah, cool end it with I found a spot over the holiday i want to check out next week, I know you'll love it wanna tag along.
If she says no, cut her off.
IF she says yes, which i'm sure she will, than play on playa.
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Ok i'm gunna going in to gr8 detail here as I really wanna give you an idea of the situation.

I met a girl (HB8....which is very good for me:) from a class I take. We get on well, I get good vibes from her so I suggest we go for a coffee one time (indirect date) she accepts and we go for a coffee a few days later.

We meet @ Starbucks and really really hit it off - it went so well. I'm sure of this as we meet at like 1 and we left about 6.15. When we was getting in our respective cars I kissed her on the cheek but I think I could of kissed her properly if tried (I was not 100% sure so basically I bottled kissing and went for her cheek instead)
Coffee isn't a good date. Daytime isn't good for intimacy. You should bounce and hit up other venues. If you followed those three pieces of advice you could have had a lot of kino and been way past kissing at the end of the date, with good logistics f close too.

FYI, goodbye kiss = afc

Anyway i'm feeling good of the situation but don't want to come across too keen so I promised myself not to text for like 3-4 days. However that night she texts me and basically says "Hey can't wait to show you this movie I know you would love!" I text back something like "I would like that!" I also made fun of her textin so soon!
Why make fun of her texting soon? are you trying to get her to play games with you?

clearly she wants to show you a movie, ask when or better yet ask for her address. (meaning implied)
Anyway we text each other a few more times that night and the vibe was good, so i thought in my head "to hell with it" ...I knew she wasn't working the following day so I mentioned to her that I have to get a few Christmas more presents, and did she want to tag along?.....She does not reply. Because she not replied I was hooked on her and I was really waiting for a reply (I kno I shouldn't of been but I was)
christmas shopping, slightly better than coffee, you are failing to escalate and you missed her signal about the movie which is bad, she wants movie at home not another goddamn date

In the end I could not wait any longer so I text her the next day (the day I asked we should meet up) and said "I take back my offer of meeting up the weather is too bad" (in fairness it was really bad - it wouldn't of worked out).....she replies within like 45mins and says something like "That's good I've got too much to do anyway lol".....we text each other a few times (30mins between our responses) The texts wans't like the previous night and I was slightly stringing them on a lil more than I was supposed to (only slightly)

The next night I text her (I know I shouldn't) it wasn instant replies to each other. Then I made another mistake I text her "What are you doing on the 27th?" (I knew she wasn't at work....She does not text back lol

I get a message the following morning "Merry Christmas, you have a good night last night etc".....she also put "since i'm working a lot I'll be sleeping most of the day (27th) and then I'm going for a meal in the evening" (no why you ask?)...coz of that I just disregarded the question I asked and text her back and wished her Merry Christmas and said I had a good night etc. She texts back have a great day etc (wanting to end the text conversation - of course it's Christmas day lol) .....I did not see the sign she wanting to end it so I texted her back with a neg but not with a text close of my own either (coming across to her that I may of expected a text back)..which I did not get back btw.

I do not get text back after this and I just kind of accepted I made 1 too many mistakes with her. I was bummed out at first for a couple of days as she was HOT, but hey its always a learning experience and I know what I did wrong with her will not happen again.

She texts me today wishing me a Happy New Year (I was pretty sure it wasn't a text she was sending every1 else as the wording was directed at me).


Ok so what do I text back? If text back at all?? PLEASE HELP!!!



If you're still reading this, thank you and I would appreciate guidance of what to do next and of course the mistakes I made (as I may not be aware of all of them!)

Thanks
wish her happy new year, call talk on the phone and talk a bit and tell her she still owes you a movie. When she doesn't respond anymore thats when you next.
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Hey bob and tsoscorpian thanks for feedback you're right I should not see her as some one really special, I knew I should not but I did - I know for next time I guess

and as for Samnex & Domr, by far the best (no disrespect to the others as im thankful for any feedback) analysis I received. I could go on and on why I did this and did that but bottom line is that I've got another in-depth perspective other than my own. I take note of ur suggestions and keep you posted with my progress :-)


I'm a lil disappointed how I played it so far but hey its a learning experience.

Cheers
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