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If anything, we should pity OP.

Every guy likes to think they would be able to just keep fucking girls all the time and not get attached, and have new ones regularly. But the truth is that once you've done it a bit, you find it loses it's zest.

What's 800 in 20 years? 20 X 365 = 7300 days. Divided by 800 is a new girl every 9.125 days. OP is saying that, for the past 20 years, he has fucked a new pussy every 9 days.

So, if OP goes on a two week business trip, that upsets the batting average and he has to fuck even more girls quicker to keep up the 9 days average. With such a high record he has to be consistent, week in, week out for twenty years or it'll quickly drop.

Sex is good, but there are plenty of things that are brilliant in life. Working out, skiing, playing football, going on a lads' night out and not trying to pull, nights in with your mates, some beers and the xbox. I can go on.

The funny thing is that I actually know a guy who admits he has read The Game, and he's weird. He reckons that PUA has helped him go from 17 girls to something in the 80s. We worked it out and it works out 6 days, a batting average even better than OP!

I've known this guy for two months, so he should've had sex with about 10 people since I've known him. He hasn't mentioned a single one. I guess he just fucks these girls and tells no one, but always mentions his number.

OP, are you this guy?
I am simply a man that loves the art of seduction. I have had plenty of time for myself and my friends. What you are failing to see is that my bonding with my friends in most of my younger years was just that. Getting laid. I have had many vacations. The thing is, even on my vacations, It was all about getting laid. I think my Handle name say's it all. I have also mentioned that throughout all of this, my constant obsession has probably done more harm then good to me. But again it's all besides the point. It has already happened. So if I can turn it into something positive ( helping others through my experiences) I will be able to show some significance to a lifetime of meaningless sex.

Do you understand?

This is a site about Pick Up and the art of seduction, is it not?

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Well, this will be my last post on this thread. So, here we go..
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I am simply a man that loves the art of seduction. I have had plenty of time for myself and my friends. What you are failing to see is that my bonding with my friends in most of my younger years was just that. Getting laid.
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I have had many vacations. The thing is, even on my vacations, It was all about getting laid. I think my Handle name say's it all.

Vacation

va·ca·tion/vāˈkāSHən/

An extended period of recreation.


So, for you sex = recreation. More interesting.
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I have also mentioned that throughout all of this, my constant obsession has probably done more harm then good to me. But again it's all besides the point. It has already happened. So if I can turn it into something positive ( helping others through my experiences) I will be able to show some significance to a lifetime of meaningless sex.
kasabi is right. You do live in a fantasy world, don't you?

Never mind the whole karma and cosmic balance equality, do you mean to say that you have never? Never? NEVER? had a sexual encounter which had a meaning to you or in your life or even at that time?

I liked the dialogue by the way. It's better than some of your other Shakespearean suggestions.
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Do you understand?
Yes. It was always about seeking peer admiration and feeling validated. Too bad.

(Read the bold parts. That's how a man shoots himself in the foot.)

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This whole entire thread summed up......

LOL

EDIT: My 0.02 cents

800 over 20 years is one new lay every 9 or so days (credit: trixta). Truthfully, any guy who is even somewhat decent at this, and who structures his life around getting laid can accomplish this pretty damn easy.

Why anyone would want to have 800+ plus lays, most of which, without meaning is beyond me. However, in life we all have different goals and different paths. If having a huge amount of meaningless sex makes someone happy then I encourage them to do it.

The big question here is: Is SexAddict911 full of shit? I don't know and I don't care.

I know of non-community naturals who has all racked up 300+ lays and many of them actually give what many people here would consider "micky mouse" and "shitty" advice. Thing is, they structure their life around sex and all they do is go meet women. When you do nothing but eat, sleep, work, and meet women 7 days a week... its not hard to rack up the numbers.

However, while the above could describe SexAddict911, he could also be a virgin living in his moms basement trying to live out some fantasy thru this site.

It doesn't matter to me. Whoever he is, and whatever he types on a forum, its not worth fighting over. Some people on here sound like little kids when they argue.

Attack the argument, not the person.

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Right, apparently you are all unable to get my not so subtle hint about flaming/insulting each other etc etc etc.

LET ME MAKE THIS PERFECTLY CLEAR - IF ANYONE EVEN REMOTELY FLAMES I WILL NOT HESITATE TO LOCK THIS THREAD!


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Right, apparently you are all unable to get my not so subtle hint about flaming/insulting each other etc etc etc.

LET ME MAKE THIS PERFECTLY CLEAR - IF ANYONE EVEN REMOTELY FLAMES I WILL NOT HESITATE TO LOCK THIS THREAD!



So if someone flames sex addict you will lock his threat! makes no sense to me, why not warn or ban the flamer... my 2 cents... Lets' just get back to the topic if anyone has a question for sexaddict ask, if you have doubts about his claim why not pm him, or talk to sexaddict in the chat, cool cool! Since joining the community here i have notice 2 school of pua/nnaturals: the ones that do the meditation, morality,holistic, innergame stuff(imo, these dudes could be super angry lol), and the scumbags, assholes, fuck machines(actually these guys for some reason are cool as hell)... Finally, there are some male and females that all we want to do is fuck, and fuck and fuck, some puas hate that shit, here is another sample:
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Ok this is not taking a shot at anybody is just something to ad:

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Well, this will be my last post on this thread. So, here we go..
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I am simply a man that loves the art of seduction. I have had plenty of time for myself and my friends. What you are failing to see is that my bonding with my friends in most of my younger years was just that. Getting laid.
Interesting.
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I have had many vacations. The thing is, even on my vacations, It was all about getting laid. I think my Handle name say's it all.

Vacation

va·ca·tion/vāˈkāSHən/

An extended period of recreation.


So, for you sex = recreation. More interesting.
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I have also mentioned that throughout all of this, my constant obsession has probably done more harm then good to me. But again it's all besides the point. It has already happened. So if I can turn it into something positive ( helping others through my experiences) I will be able to show some significance to a lifetime of meaningless sex.
kasabi is right. You do live in a fantasy world, don't you?

Never mind the whole karma and cosmic balance equality, do you mean to say that you have never? Never? NEVER? had a sexual encounter which had a meaning to you or in your life or even at that time?

I liked the dialogue by the way. It's better than some of your other Shakespearean suggestions.
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Do you understand?
Yes. It was always about seeking peer admiration and feeling validated. Too bad.

(Read the bold parts. That's how a man shoots himself in the foot.)
I have had lots of meaningful encounters with women and have created some great friendships but when i look back at it all on a grand scope, it does seem like a lot of meaningless sex. Perhaps it was merely me feeding my ego, but at the end of it all, I am trying to give more meaning to it all, by trying to help. I never once said how awesome it was to have these numbers. In fact! i have repeatedly mentioned it may have done more harm to me then good.

But it is already done. I am not seeking any admiration, i get enough of that from my circle of friends. I am merely trying to use my life experience to help others. I am not trying to turn anyone into what I have been.

I am simply trying to draw on my life experience in a positive manner.

There are men on this planet that have sex with thousands upon thousands of women and still have had meaningful lives. Gene Simons, Charlie Sheen, Wilt chamberlan, etc etc sure they are famous and in the public eye but i guarantee there is regular joe's as well.

I am a very caring and passionate person, I believe it's that very passion that allowed me to become intimate with women so easily, as well as the effort. People obsess over all kinds of things. It's human nature. My obsession just happens to be seducing women.

I am not here preaching that huge numbers is a great thing. But with those numbers comes a lot of experience.

Experience is what I am here to share.

As for Karma and my aura, I am doing great on those avenues. And it gets better each day. The very fact that I am still here trying to help after endless doubters and insults should show you some of my character. But it's not important what you all think of me. All that matters is If I am able to help.

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Fine, I will chime in.

Good to have anyone who wants to help. But, there are threads throughout the forums, why not establish yourself by helping others rather than dedicating a thread to yourself?

Hell, to that end, I will ask a question. Friday night I hit it off with a girl, then suddenly a couple of her friends showed up, said they were leaving, and took her away. How would you attempt to keep the girl around in that situation?


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Fine, I will chime in.

Good to have anyone who wants to help. But, there are threads throughout the forums, why not establish yourself by helping others rather than dedicating a thread to yourself?

Hell, to that end, I will ask a question. Friday night I hit it off with a girl, then suddenly a couple of her friends showed up, said they were leaving, and took her away. How would you attempt to keep the girl around in that situation?
That's a difficult situation my friend. Women will tend to make group bonds in the beginning of the night. Saying they will not leave without each other. There is also the issue of the Mother hen. The only suggestion i can think of ( for future reference) keeping in mind, the mother hen plus the bond about leaving together.

Is that you engage both the girl and the group she is with. If you can win the group over especially the mother hen, it will increase your chances of getting her alone at the end of the night. Also you can try to leave with them, your willingness to be with the group entirely, can sometimes get them to eventually drop the guard. If the girl is interested enough in you, she will eventually fine some alone time for you both.

I have found though, that a lot of women will not break this bond with the group, no matter how charming and persuasive you are. But they will find ways to be intimate with you. ( bathroom, hallway, balcony, on the walk out as she is sending you home. etc etc.)

It's best to try to do your work within the group. If you can impress her friends or at the very least, have them tolerate your presence. You will have gained her interest even more.

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Good to have anyone who wants to help. But, there are threads throughout the forums, why not establish yourself by helping others rather than dedicating a thread to yourself?

By having my own thread for people to ask me for assistance, it will allow me to keep a captive audience. Anyone can randomly give advice on other threads. But if they are actually asking me. It will ensure my time and effort is being received properly.


How would you attempt to keep the girl around in that situation?[/quote]

At the very least, in a last ditch attempt to keep the girl. I would politely address her friends, while still holding on to her physically. I would ask her friends if she can stay with me. I would then try tp ensure them that I am a complete gentleman and I promise to get her home safe and sound. Offer your phone number to the friends, and say they can follow up with you as to her safe arrival home.

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So if someone flames sex addict you will lock his threat! makes no sense to me, why not warn or ban the flamer...
Doing this would include many members including sexaddict.
So in other words Madals is giving a chance to cut out the bullshit and try for the love of god to make this thread somewhat helpful though I doubt that will happen now.

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It sounds really cool that you have been in bed with that many. You got my respect for that dude. Not so many has the balls to do what you do.

Heres my question, i hope you can help me:

I am now 18 years old, I'm starting in college, and never had a girlfriend, and yes I'm a virgin. The first period of school, I'm shy when it comes to hot girls, but when it comes to normal girls from the scale from 5 to 8, I'm not that shy. I don't know how to approach them for first time. After a period of time, I won't be shy anymore, because I have cool friends, and are not that ugly. I would describe my self as a gentleman, I am always polite.

I know that you want me to be the "badboy" but the problem for me is, that I can't get to the hook up point with them. I don't know how to show sexual tension. If we now say that I like this girl. Should I touch her a bit when I'm talking to her? I always feel like a pervert when I think of doing it. I don't know how to do it.

I'm the type of the guy who just wants to get straight into the point, I'm not that guy who likes to write to girls for 100 years, I'm more the guy who just wanna hang out with them instead. I hope you can give me some advices. College starts very soon, and I don't know what to do the first period. I don't want girls to add me on their shy list.


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I like smoking areas. Lots of girls there. How do you approach a girl when you know all of the girls there are stuck up bitches? I just like to go over and say hi, and thats the beggining and the end of the conversation. What do you say after hi? what works best?

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Hey sexaddict
Anyidea for dates? And how do you close the deal?


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Hey SexAddict,

I think it's quite obvious by now to everyone on here that you are a 'natural', eventhough some might still suspect you exagerate your claims.

Naturals don't use a rigid, stuctured game, but in my experience, they still have certain routines, stories and comebacks which have proven to work for them and which they keep using now and again.

Now, it seems you have mostly taught yourself pickup, and as such you have been free of the influence of the community... Therefore, you are very interesting to me (and I am sure to everyone on here) because you can offer some very fresh and new insights into how to do certain things...

So, here are my questions to you:

1. What openers have worked best for you?
2. How do you approach a complete stranger in the street?
3. How do you establish a connection with a girl? What are the best stories you tell her? or jokes? Do you ever play games with her, and if so, which ones?
4. What do you answer to a girl who accuses you to be a player?
5. What do you say to a girl who tells you she already has a boyfriend?
6. What do you say to a girl who is rude to you/giving you attitude?
7. What do you answer when a girl tells you: "We're not having sex tonight!"
8. What do you do if a girl asks you to buy her a drink?
9. How do you ask a girl for her phone number? Or do you give her yours?
10. What do you do to build up the sexual attraction between you and the girl?
11. How do you go about kissing a girl? How do you lead to the kiss?
12 What do you say to a girl to convince her to leave the place and come home with you?

Thanks in advance for taking the time to answer these.


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Hey SexAddict,

I think it's quite obvious by now to everyone on here that you are a 'natural', eventhough some might still suspect you exagerate your claims.

Naturals don't use a rigid, stuctured game, but in my experience, they still have certain routines, stories and comebacks which have proven to work for them and which they keep using now and again.

Now, it seems you have mostly taught yourself pickup, and as such you have been free of the influence of the community... Therefore, you are very interesting to me (and I am sure to everyone on here) because you can offer some very fresh and new insights into how to do certain things...

So, here are my questions to you:
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1. What openers have worked best for you?
Approach: Excuse me may i ask you a question? reply: Yes. me: What fucks like a tiger and winks? reply: What? Me: WINK

Approach: Hi, my name is Shawn, Forgive me for being so blunt, but you are absolutely beautiful. but then again I have had about 20 shot and 14 drinks....lol Just playing, Whats your name?

Approach: My friends and I were checking you out, we were arguing about your age group, they guessed __ . ( wait for it) she says: and what did you guess. Me: oh i didnt guess, I dont know the number for beautiful. hehehe ( cheese is good)

Approach: Hello my name is Shawn, i put my hand out to shake, i then grap her hand and gesture to kiss it, but at the last second, i turn it over and kiss my own.

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2. How do you approach a complete stranger in the street?
too many variables to answer, is it day time, night time, summer, winter, etc etc.
General, it is with a question. nothing ever too forward. I try to engage in friendly conversation and go with the flow.
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3. How do you establish a connection with a girl? What are the best stories you tell her? or jokes? Do you ever play games with her, and if so, which ones?
Loaded question. go with the flow, no set technique or structure. It is purely situational. Follow the tells and reads then go from there. Generally friendly and with alot of humor.

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4. What do you answer to a girl who accuses you to be a player?
Im not a player, I'm french :) or I am far too romantic and passionate to be a player.
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5. What do you say to a girl who tells you she already has a boyfriend?
a) Thats ok I am not trying to have sex with you, at least not this very moment. ;) just playing. you seem very nice, can't a cute boy talk to a cute girl without having to bring up bf's and gf's

b) Are you in love? does he treat you right? you know you can tell me I am a stranger. we are the best people to talk to about these things.

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6. What do you say to a girl who is rude to you/giving you attitude?
Not common as I tend to try to be polite and jokey. but it has happened. Sometimes I will just tell them off in french, and then smile. then they will ask me what i said, and I will say if you ask me nicely i will tell you. Then when they ask me nicely, I usually say what they said to me in the first place, and then say, see !how does it feel. Then walk away saying something else in french. LOL

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7. What do you answer when a girl tells you: "We're not having sex tonight!"
In my mind i say " thats what you think"( lol) To her I may say that's ok but we can cuddle and kiss though RIGHT!
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8. What do you do if a girl asks you to buy her a drink?
a)Depends if we have already had a conversation. if not, I say sure, and tell them that the money for the drink is in my pants in the middle front pocket. If they are attractive and they go for the "middle front pocket" I will usually buy them that drink. lol

b) if you can guess my age within 3 years I will buy you two drinks. ( no woman has ever guessed right) lol
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9. How do you ask a girl for her phone number? Or do you give her yours?
I tend to give them mine, or i will ask to see their cell phone and put my number in, if the girl is retarded hot, i will call my number immediately so I have her digits.
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10. What do you do to build up the sexual attraction between you and the girl?
a)Whisper something french in their ear, if they ask what i said, I will reply, i said " do you like when a french man whispers in your ear"

b)Tell them i am a massage therapist then place my hands on them
c) intense eye contact.
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11. How do you go about kissing a girl? How do you lead to the kiss?
a)when hugging i will gently pull on their hair, then brush their neck with my lips as I am breathing lightly and sometimes growl lightly....then pull away, and make intense eye contact.

b) kiss on forhead, then eskimo kiss,( based on reaction) full on lip kiss, no tongue, never initiate tongue until she does.

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12 What do you say to a girl to convince her to leave the place and come home with you?
a)I find you fascinating, i would love to spend more time with you right now. lets go to my place, i can make you something to eat and we can talk.

b) i am a massage therapist ( lol)

Thanks in advance for taking the time to answer these.

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