Hey guys i really need your opinion on this, cut things short, after 3years of break up with my this ex-girlfriend we started talking a lot and getting really close to each other again..and the thing is that i have been dating and sleeping with other womens too at the same time. however this time she asked me out a few times (maybe she is just considering me as a friend) she even asked me to fetch her out to the night club. But the thing is that im confused.. inside the club she dance, hugged me and stuff..but sometimes when i tried to escalate like asking for her hand to guide her away from the crowd she rejected me, besides when she meet her friend( some dude) she went out this them to drink at some bar and i caught her flirting with him. She told me its nothing serious tho. I really need some advice from u guys to help me improve my game..seriously i was over her till tonight i think i might have a crush again on her. PLS bross need some good advice here thanks

If you are in love with this girl that's a different story.

If it's just sex, you have already had sex with this girl...go after others.

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"Don't put the pussy on a pedestal"

She sees you with other women and she is deciding to test you. Game is about being resourceful enough to always flip the tables in your favor. She wants you to supplicate to her as she feeds off of the attention. She is sucking your confidence and using it for herself. Play it cool. If it were me, I would walk up to some strange women, with total confidence and do what ever it takes to keep them laughing ect. If you will never see them again it doesn't really matter what you say. I've actually walked up to women and talked about crapping my pants or something ridiculous. The point is, your ex will see you talking to them and them having fun. The women will not feel threatened if you are not hitting on them. WHEN she starts openly flirting with men right in front of you as retribution pay no mind to it what so ever. Not even a glance. She will start pulling more and more crap to get your attention. Eventually she might go as far as coming right out and saying.. "See the nice guy I met" ect; this is where I pull out the kicker... "Ya he seems to really like you" then walk away. That's the moment that she realizes you are a real catch, and he is some tool she is using to get back at you. Even if it's not the truth, it's about your reality, not hers.

Most guys on here will tell you to forget the ex, and honestly it is a hard venture indeed. Next to impossible if you don't get the concept of, she is just another woman like all the rest. But I learned the hard way. and it was good practice. lol.

I'm not those crazy ex-bf who is trying to patched up things. All this while whenever i talked or meet women they gave me a very strong IOI but this ex of mine totally gave me nth. I'm afraid im falling into the friendzone man. I'm not looking for a relationship, but i can't stop thinking bout the fact that why is it so hard to crack this chick. Im playing cool, good social value, etc..im not sure what or where it went wrong. fucking bitch, mind fucking me man. haha pls help me out

Before I give you advice. You should know that I'm stuck in the friend zone with my ex as well. But I went from her refusing to answer my calls, emails, being blocked on facebook to being one of her best friend. She was a very great gf and I don't mind being her friend. I do love her but I game other girls constantly. I had to play hard to get otherwise she would avoid me at all costs. Now the strange thing is I've seemed to have got a grip on my inner game somewhat. Enough to realize that all the tactics in the world fail in comparison to simply being happy regardless of outcome. Women really respond to a man with solid foundation, who doesn't need tactics ect. You will find that the tactics ect will fall in to place accidentally. For example all my ex's friends like me, talk about me in front of her. My style is that I have lots of female friends. LOTS!!! If I get stuck in the friend zone... good. More social proof. Especially if she is your ex. What I'm trying to say might sound strange but the answer is in you. Nothing you do or say will give you the tools. I mean, you already got this girl once. lol. Why don't you believe it's possible to get her again, or better yet learn from your mistakes and get an even better girl. I'm really into Tyler and RSD lately, some useful quotes from him
"It's so in your head it's not even funny"
"Attractive is being, not doing"
"true self/intentions always show."
Ironically, to get her back you either have to legit not care, or be a social robot/perfect actor. If you are sitting there thinking. Ok if I say A, she will react B, then you are approaching the situation from the perspective that you are inferior to her and she will smell it a mile away.
This is advanced stuff here, and most will pass it by because it's so abstract. They want some magic sentence that always works. honestly such things don't exist and in reality, this advanced shit is what always works.