so I got 2 numbers last night, not a lot, but these girls I got to know over the course of 2-3 hours. One is 18 and local, had nice conversation. The other one kept smiling at me and we chatted a bit throughout the night as well. My escalation skills are nonexistent though, small talk is as far as I got with either and they at the end went to her place to crash.

The one girl (hot one) is from outta town, who kept smiling and looking at me. She'll be here for the weekend. She looked about 100 lbs and 8/10. Any suggestions, with tomorrow being new years, on how to move this forward?

I was thinking of inviting her out tomorrow to another bar, her friend is working. Is there a rule when it comes to texting, should I escalate into sexuality asap, or just ask her to come out tonight.

You should always sexually escalate with women you like.

Playing it safe, when it comes to women, does not pay off. Being edgy, could fuck shit up with some women, but make you very attractive to other. It just depends on your game.

ugh since SPAM, I'm drawing a blank... but I know she's game for it. could someone give me a good start point? thanks

Tell 2 or 3 of your good looking friends about this situation (girl too if you can) and ask them to meet up at x place this night. They must know what you're up too tho

Ask the girl to go enjoy a drink earlier in the evening and time yourself to be there about an hour before your friends. They'll come in and that'll be mad DHV and social proof if they know their game too. Even more powerful if you bring a girl.

Then they can just join up to you and you guys can decide to what to do next.

Always gave me good results so far.

I'm having wingman problems, all my friends (almost) have bunked out. I was at the bar alone last night, probably tonight too. Was lucky last night bumped into some guy at the pool table to started talking to me and next thing you know I was surrounded by 1 HB8 and a couple 7's. 1 which I failed to get into conversation with which costed me a little but I managed to isolate the other two pretty well.

unfortunately i failed to break that hold also, but tonight I think the one girl is on her own... so I need to come up with a plan to take her out that doesn't involve my bunk ass friends.

Do you know a bar where you're friendly with the staff ? This might works just fine tho. Because tbh, if you were on your own on the first night, you'll need any kind of social proof on the next date if we're talking of an 8+ here.

And is it tonight that we're talking about ? If yes, I would simply wait for a better night if you can't get that kind of social proof this particular night. Even if she's having a good time, she'll eventually question herself about why you're spending this special night with a girl you barely know instead of your friends.

just hit her up, text her something like "NYE! lets party tonight"

And after ?

well i texted her ''hello beautiful'' no reply

closed door, moot thread

my best friend is in hawaii SPAM, and he would probably be an awesome wingman but he doesn't go out (often). College buddy. Other than that it seems like setting up the scenario for success here could take weeks.

usually do a bonfire at his place

this is my social proof for you

I am a good looking (enough) dude. I'll put in the effort with minimum alcohol involvement. But I don't find it easy to always make them laugh. So would you guys send a second text or just leave it alone

NEVER send a second sms.

If she did not reply to the first one there's 2 options.

1: She didn't see it yet
2: She don't want to answer it

Either way, if you send a second one, it's try hard.

I noticed if you don't get ten numbers you are unlikely to have a working one. I sent a second text against my better judgement. Live and learn

i want to make them laugh more and use kino, whatever that is. I tried something I read about when talking to these girls which is matching body language and was surprised to see they mimicked whatever I did... so I'm having fun with this whole PUA thing and hopefully it pays off at some point

like tonight

Good luck bro, hope it goes well for you