Hi All

So ive been in a couple of relationships and my last was 8 months ago. Since then i have slept with a couple of girls (that i already knew) but now i think its time for me to move on and start picking up more women

I found this site a few days ago, after needing advice, as i have trouble going straight up to women and just talking to them. I took a few tips from a few threads off here, and went out clubbing with some friends. For the first time i actually got more girl attention than i ever had before. It was simple actions such as keeping my back straight, standing tall, drink by my side, head up instead of looking down all the time, and when i saw a girl i was attracted too i would look direct into their eyes, i did it three times and everytime they looked back and smiled, i didnt feel rejected, i no its not alot but it made me feel good! This has made me persue and want more

So New Years i am going to a small bar, roughly 50 girls and 30 guys, so i should be able to pick out a few girls without worrying about guys overpowering. My question is, how do i go about making conversation? Do i just go straight up to a couple of girls at the bar and start talking to them? What topic would you use to start a convo? I have maybe:

'hey i need your opinion, what do you prefer on a guy when he comes out to a club? Wearing a shirt to dress smart, or a top?'

That sort of thing, asking them for their opinion so i appear interested etc.

Any ideas?

Thanks

Hey dude,

Here are a few classic PUA openers.

Who lies more men or women?

What do you think of tats on girls?

Did you guys see the fight outside two girls where fighting over this one guy domingos (You can use any name you want) .... Pause.... Would you guys fight over a guy with that name ..... Cut them off before they answer. Anways during the fight one girl pulled the other girls top down and her booby poped out. Now I like boobys but her pair where saggy baggy national geographic ones. Anyways would you ever fight over a guy with that name? c'mon.

Look around on the net there are more man.

Your better up making your own openers when you get better because alot of the classics are used to death. But the classics should work for tonight.

Good luck
BARON

Do you really want to be a pick up artist?

I know this forum is all about that image, and the lines and routines. But I started having a million times more success when I would go up to girls and be completely honest. "Hi, you're really cute. And our hairs the same color, so we'd make a good couple." You don't think about what she's going to say back to you, you just start walking in her direction, then say whatever comes to your mind. If you feel stuck after that, just ask how she's doing, or tell her your name.

If you're going with your friends, you're going to have a lot more approach anxiety than if you go alone. So go alone, you get the comfort of knowing that no one will see you again unless you want them to.

Decide, for this one night, that you're going to be "Total Honesty Man." Even go up to girls and say, "Hi! Did you know I'm a superhero?" and take it from there. They will love it, I'm positive. THIS INCLUDES BEING HONEST ABOUT YOUR SEXUALITY. If you're thinking about fucking someone, tell them! They can't be mad, it wasn't jrbuckz, it was Total Honesty Man!