Okay guys I'm pretty peed off at the moment and I'm not sure if I should be. Basically I met this girl at a party and went home with her that night, it ended up with me dating her. Later on I found out that she had a boyfriend and had lied to me so I dumped her. She also disrespected me in many different ways such as being rude to me in public and flirting with my mate.

The same mate that she flirted with also told me to leave her and find a new girl. Now the interesting thing is that he's added her on Facebook and has been known before to shout at me for adding girls he's dated. He's a pretty good mate and i've been on holiday with him and he lives with me because we're doing the same course at uni.

Am I overreacting and should I let him get with her or is he just being disrespectful?

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He's being disrespectful, but only if you're sure his intentions are to get with her.

i would call em on it. if he really is your bro, he should be able to take criticism. Tell him: hey dude, whats the deal. I just hate people who make up rules and then dont live up to them. That is why i would call him on it.

Ofcourse, he is your buddy, not mine. There are degrees in which you can call em on it. Be firm though, if you really dont like it. If you dont care, still call em on it, and ask why. You might see a side that you didnt know before.

cheers

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

It really depends on what the case is. How close are you to this friend and many other things. What you have to do is be straight forward. Tell your friend or rather warn your friend and make sure he knows that you don't tolerate people that will mess up their friends for a girl he barley knows. You have more facts than me about this case and therefore have to use your own judgement to figure out if your friend played you. In my life I had many opportunities to steal my friends girlfriends. I even had few times when their girlfriends tried making out with me but I stood strong and didn't falter and my friends remember that till today. And these friends always when they have a chance hook me up with very hot girls. Remember you can always fuck girls but you cant always find good friends. Good luck!

- Amazing Art -

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"Experience is the teacher of all things"

Yeah, if it bothers you, don't let him get away with it. Tell him straight up, say honestly "I dont want you dating her. Bros before hoes man. We can go out and meet other girls, I'll help you get one, but she's off limits."

i'd call him a fag and leave it at that

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Yeah I know his snaking tactics on Facebook.

The friendship we have is quite close and we'd be considered best 'uni' mates. I wouldn't mind If I left on good terms with the girl but she stressed me out big time. I actually don't want to see her again. I would be disappointed if he did do it but I guess i'm gunna have to keep calm due to the fact my friendship is worth more than a hoe. I've had sex with a girl that he did before but he didn't really date her and he remained friends with her.

I'll call him out on it and be straight up but if he get's annoyed that I've questioned his intentions he's probably going to be pissed off as well. Probably be best to tread lightly here!

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