Ok so this is the frame: Me and my cousin, going out with some girl and her friend. Turns out, the friend is smoking hot and we shit brix. Night procedes as follows:

Cliffnotes: -all 4 of us get to the club and were having an amazing time already
- HB is flirting relentlessly with me
- girls WE'RE with, are meeting guys from their college (their intention was to use us to make them jealous)
- HB hooks up with random guy but still keeps flirting with me, at this point im giving her zero attention and negging pretty hard
- HB ends up wanting to leave when I wanted to go, and we went and ate food til 5.30am (2 hours) this whole time she is coming on to me but I never gave any attention

So now here we are and I actually think this girl is cute, and don't know what the next step should be. I know she is definately interested, but hooked up with that guy she liked at the club.

So far, one of the girls we went out with made a "check in" and tagged me on facebook and the HB commented in it (trying to aware me who she is on facebook lol) ... after being a bit cold to the HB i decided to inbox msg her saying : Hi Caity (which isnt actually her real name, its a neg i use because i cant remember her name)

the next day she responds: Hi Alexis! (another fake name , inside stuff)

So fellas, any veterans or experienced gamers could give me some advice as to where I should take this thing now? We've also made an unofficial time to meet in the future because I am a personal trainer and she wants to train with me... but no specific dates ofc

Thanks in advance guys!

Im not a natural or a master pua lol. People still use that pua? But recently just going really direct with women cuts all this bullshit, meaning small talk and chasing. Just ask her to meet you for a cup of coffee meet her up and get to know her. Be yourself that sounds cliche but yea just listen to what she says. Why would you go workout with her. What do you want from this girl, girlfriend or fuck buddy? It's cool that your keeping a fun and flirty vibe with her but why waist time. Tell her what you would like from her there has to be a reason why you are talking to her. If you don't act you will just gain another platonic friend. No more of this pussy footing if she is not interested then move on she was not interested in you. You can't attract every girl. Everything that happened at the club or with the guy she hooked up with is irrelevant. Act cool keep a calm and relaxed frame. No more of this indirect game its time for direct game to take over. One last thing do something fun with her to get to know her if you don't want to sit around and talk at a coffee shop. No more time wasting indirect game.

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I completely agree ! I was thinking of going down that path anyways, cutting the shit and saying "listen im going to call you so give me your number" or something along the lines...

thoughts?

Yea dude just make your move. She knows your interested in her just find out if she feels the same way.

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I do what I want to do, act how I want to act, say what I want to say. Yea I'm a knucklehead. PAC DIV.

Ok so I started speaking to her on facebook and this is how it goes (were not friends on fb yet):

me: you do know that you've left a bite mark on my arm right? lol (because she bit my arm that night)

her: LOL sorry alexxxxxxx :)

me: aw dont worry it reminds me of the awesumm tymeezz we had...deliriously laughing in pancake parlour til 5.30am
i think your bubbly personality is cute, so give me your number and ill call you after new years xx
and we can all hang out again

her: lmfao i cant believe that actually happened. BUT BITING IS JUST WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DONT FLEX FOR US!! i got a new phone i dont remember my number yet how about you give me yours! X

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so after reading that last message from her im thinking she has just politely rejected me, and asking for my number instead so she can get rid of me.

10 minutes later, she adds me on facebook as a friend.

So now im thinking wtf.. if she wanted to get rid of me why is she adding me?

Now I dont know if I want to respond giving her my number, or something else

Opinions?

give her your number, whats the worst that could happen.
She could genuinly be blonde enough not to know how to get her own number. Just tell her to text you straight away. If she doesnt text you straight away, Dont contact her on facebook. let her come to you via text

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I still don't have all the answers. I'm more interested in what I can do next than what I did last

Agreed. Give her your number and let her make the first move. Girls will just not give you a number if they are not interested...they don't go out of their way to ask you for your number to make you better.

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All good advice, thanks for the feedback

Turns out she did text me, first number close from Facebook Usually it never works for me online, but I found that this time I was extra "in your face" so it showed a lot of my character (through an online interface) which usually gets lost in translation over the internet.

I told her "I think you're cute, I don't care if you like someone else I'm better " which she went for.

Plan to call in a couple days, will update this thread when I do

Thanks guys!

good luck man, i'd say definately call her. no more facebook. while compliments are a good thing, dont just say i think you're cute. shes heard that from 100 guys i bet. compliment her on some part of her personality you like, something that lets her know you are actually paying attention to her. and early on you dont need to shower a girl with compliments, neg her man! let her know shes trying to impress you because YOU are worth getting to know. you can be another guy that she goes out on a date with, or you can be this new guy who she can't get enough of because hes nothing like those other unimaginative AFCs.