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I don't understand what you mean at all. The only thing that would deter me from a girl is if she was fat, ugly or didn't deem me to be sexually good enough for her. Me turning down a girl for her personality would be like a starving homeless tramp turning down a delicious sandwich because it had the 'wrong' brand of mayonaisse.
You don't get it because all you want and focus on is the body and nothing else. Going back to my Ferrari example, you don't care if the Ferrari had a 130hp 4cyl engine as you still take it even tho one with a 350 v6 will be far better.
I'm extremely visual, I just want to stare at a beautiful girl's face, kiss her and shag her for the rest of my life. How can I possibly do this without marrying a beautiful girl? She must also have a decent body (i.e. not fat) so she can turn me on. Anything else is just extra.
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No I don't mean affordable in financial terms, I mean can the guy 'afford' the girl in the sense that the girl thinks the guy is sexually good enough for her. I'm talking about erotic capital, not financial capital! I've realised over time how utterly insignificant financial capital (money) is compared to erotic capital (looks). Not only is the exchange rate between the two very high, but erotic capital never gets used up! It only expires when the girl reaches her 30s/40s, and even then the change is so gradual you don't even notice if you're with her all that time.
You really need to stop focusing on looks dude. If you think you can't get a hot girl because of your looks you aren't going to get one period.
How can you claim looks aren't important when this website goes on and on about HB8s, HB9s, etc.? Looks are extremely important to me, because sexual attraction is essential for a healthy relationship and a decent level of looks is essential for sexual attraction.