Okay so briefly, got a girls number, we went out had dinner made her laugh etc but then I fucked it up somehow and showed too much interest. She became distant and is now abroad til late Jan when I will see her again in class. I havnt tried contacting her at all.

When I go back, I know she knows I like her... so I should freeze out?

Can someone explain how I can do this and what is the desired effect?

Thanks!!

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Freeze outs are for when a woman is a bitch to you after you two are going steady; or theres a lot of attraction on her part.
Freeze outs will NOT work if your the only one attracted, and your doing it because your mad at her.

If you fuck up and she stops texting you, what makes you think you not texting her will solve it? That just makes two people not texting eachother!

(expanding on freeze out) Freezing out is, for example a girl is texting you 3 times every 3 minutes because she likes you a lot, but your not sure if you like her; so you freeze her out to see how she acts. You wait for her to say something stupid like "please text me i love you" or "i hate you never talk to me again" then you act however you want based on what she does, and what you want.

Now pretend your on the other side, you text a woman 3 times every 3 minutes and she stops texting you because your annoying/needy, she is already ignoring your texting now and maybe already deleted your number; she is the one freezing you out according to my previous definition, so what's the average guys first thought? To freeze her out back. Now you can see why I say freezing out because she's not texting you doesn't work; she's already forgotton about you, not texting her will help her forget.

Text her and be what you wanted to be last time, acting changed is better than saying you've changed; show her she lost a lot by distancing herself from you.

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A traditional freeze out doesn't really apply here but I recommend one anyway. Here's why: You haven't gone very far, there's no emotional connection to keep up. By freezing her out you show that you aren't needy, and you have time to develop your skills and relationships with other women. When she returns, you can greet her warmly, ask about her trip, and it will go well. You should note that this would not necessarily be the case if you weren't guaranteed to see her again.

So I should be the first to text her back? How can I show her she's missed out on alot if I am to be what I wanted to be last time? Sorry, I don't understand fully

Thanks. Yeah I guess that's what I initially thought; that I need to show that I'm not needy/annoying.

But I guess I need to learn more about freeze-outs and when they are most appropriate.

Trust me you WILL be the first to text her back, I would take half of 'slip n slide's advice and wait a little bit, definitely not more than a month, maybe less than 2 weeks even; in that time find some cool sht to do, go to a amusement park, or see a cool movie, hang out with friends doin something cool. Figure out something she would love to do and do it; then text her about how awesome it was

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Thanks for your advice, I appreciate it fully. I will definitely do what you suggested.

You love the freeze outs charblad, you must be pretty good with them

Thanks bro!! I appreciate your time with your replies!

haha I wouldn't know all that much, mostly cuz I rarely do em; in theory I'm good but I have close to no practice because it's not a everyday PUA skill, not to belittle my advice I stand behind it 100% tho

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Yea, dude.. Freeze outs are most effective with the chicks that are into you more than you are into them.. It just drives them nuts and they start calling you a lot and texting you a lot of needy shit. I make it a point to always freeze out a chick once she becomes really into me. It keeps them in they're place.

However, if it's a girl you were needy over that you went on more than 1 date with, a freeze out will make her text you after a few days just to see if your still into her..

The best advice in this situation, is to just move on and do your on thing. Shes getting banged out by abroad guys right now. If she contacts you when she comes back, so be it. If she doesn't, you be too far ahead living your life to even notice.

Why are you thinking about a girl thats not even in your country anyway?

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Thanks for your reply. Well to be honest, I didn't understand the whole concept of a freeze out which is why I asked if it was appropriate, and also asked what else I can do in this situation.

My initial thoughts were at the very least not to show any form of needyness by texting her, and for some reason I thought that was kinda what a freeze out was? But I have learned, thanks to all the replies what the true definition of the word is.

You ARE RIGHT that I really shouldnt be thinking about her, I just want to get her and wanted to know what to do next. I have been talking to other women in the meantime and getting on with my own hobbies and life. But most importantly I am here to learn and I can only thank you for your valuable input.

You have a successful attitude.. Hold on to that

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