Ok.. So here's the deal. Ive never had a problem attracting women. I am not the least bit shy. I work in a bar. Have done so for the last 16 years. Flirting is my occupation. I have no problem with the approach, getting the number, ect. But, here lately, ive been put into a strange predicament. In the past 3 weeks, i have had 7 different girls come on to me. 3, i dismissed. 1 is out of town. One is out of state. The others are local and i see them often. Out of the girls i havent dismissed, in the last few days i have noticed that they now have boyfriends shortly after spending time with me and showing affection. The one i really liked even spent the night. Two days later, is in a relationship with someone else. Im not looking to be a player. Im tired of the bar scene. I am looking for a girlfiend. How the hell does a guy who has no problem picking up women, in fact ...has women pick HIM up, the moment he wants to take it past the flirting level become a real life " good luck chuck?!"

haha i see what you mean about the movie good luck chuck lol. so what you need to do is to take your own initiative. bars are not really a great place to find a girl friend, just a one night stand. i think that to find nice girls, go and pick them up from coffee shops, the street, friend's parties etc, every where except bars and clubs. see how it goes.