Okay, there is this chick at work who is quite beautiful. I'm quite a novice in PU, so I won't say that I was 'gaming' her. From all the things that I did, I can safely say that I got her slightly attracted to me, I did alot of Cocky/Funny shit that got her to play along.

I think so far, the high point in our flirtation was when she told this guy, right next to me, that she was my girlfriend, I was in a conversation when I heard it, but those kind of htings just sort of stand out. (Not sure if this was a good thing, input please?)


Currently, she playfully trips me, pushes me out of the way with her butt, and teases. I do the same, but more verbally than anything. I've also escalated Kino, but only slightly, I massaged her once. She said she liked it rough.


Anyways, what gets me right now, is where I should take it?

thanks for your input, cheers

Hey mate!

its time to grab your nuts and amp up the game!

what is it you want with this girl? Plain sex or an LTR?

at first, i makes no difference, i would suggest you ask her to go and do something together. If you want to just fuck her, make it a bit exciting, go dancing, or plan in a place where you can escalate that kino.
If you wanna go for the LTR, you need to be sure that she is the shit for you. i take it that you know what you want in a woman. So take her out for a drink and talk. Say: hey, i think you are hot/sexy/interesting/funny. I want to get to know you better. Lets go for a drink on whatever day. Find out who she is, be genuinly interested in her. if she is your thing, escalate, let her know what you want, by either kissing her or telling her.

From what i can read, i think you have a fair chance actually. If you are just in for the sex, be sure that you are bold enough. Go for what you want, be honest about it.

cheers.

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thanks so much for the input! OKAY Crazy stuff just happened, at least for me.

So before I read this forum again, to check the replies, I saw her at work today, and asked if she wanted to get margaritas. Well, she did! We had a decent time! It was fun.

Now.. she's a bit foreign, to me, it's hard to understand her sense of humor so it was a tiny bit difficult, but I did get her to laugh once or twice before our other friends showed up.

My problem now is, that i ran out of things to talk about. COMPLETELY. I couldn't think of anything funny to say, or where to progress the conversation.

Tips?

Thanks again, I'm glad I asked her out, and I think she had a good time as well.

-edit- in our little date, kino, unfortunately was not escalated. Should I have sat beside her? I was going to do a palm reading routine, etc. But I forgot them! hahaha

bump for tips and tricks!

Ask her questions about herself. You will keep the conversation flowing as well as learn about her. When she stops, just simply ask her another question.

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This, get past the small talk and move to important things. Why she works where you do? Why she chose that job? What she is in school for and why? What she really wants to do in life? Challenge her on these, qualify, etc.

Also, relate with what she says when possible. People like others like themselves... builds comfort. I'm a big fan of using "we" when talking about the two of you doing something. Trips a mental signal for the girl to think of you two together as a couple so long as their is attraction. Flirt, escalate, etc and you're golden

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This is great advice.

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so glad i bumped this topic. Thanks alot gents, if any of you are in the DFW area, i'll buy ya a beer :p