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To get girls talking, you don't need to ask a lot of questions. Just ask a few then find a way to connect with them emotionally.
For example:
Me: So, what do you do for work?
HB: Oh, well I teach kindergarten
Me: Oh, thats interesting so you must love kids then?
HB: Well the kids are lots of fun, but I really just like teaching. Helping spread knowledge is so important, and I feel like there i a low supply of good passionate teachers these days.
Me: Wow, so you must have some pretty big aspirations then, considering how passionate you sound about this....
blah blah blah
Yes, my convo is short and lame, but you can make questions, not really seem like questions by including your own observations, and getting to the root of why someone gave you their initial answer.
Don't just interview a girl...connect with them!
Also, when girls are talking about their emotions just repeat everything they say..hahaha
hb:I'm feeling really upset and overwhelmed by this semesters workload and it is really getting to me
me:So you just feel like you have so much on your shoulders and sometimes it is too much to handle?
it is kind of funny, sometimes I try not to giggle because of how it consistently goes in the same direction every time.