Now single I've been out sarging a bit and things have been going well! Ive got a few numbers and had some dates. Recently I bumped into a stunning girl in a wheelchair, we got talking and had a lot in common and had very similar lifestyles which is rare for me to find. We even have lots of mutual family friends. This girl has everything I'd look for and really is an hb10 (she was and still is a pro model).

Previously I would of walked on and not considered dating her but a few years ago I broke my back and nearly lost the use of my legs. I didn't walk for a few months. After this I promised myself never to judge a girl in a chair as I would of been gutted if someone held it against me.

Anyone have any experience or advice on disabled women?

Oh and merry Christmas!!

She is a girl treat her like one.

She is no different.

_________________
Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

the wheelchair is a shit test.

handle it as such.

JUST KIDDING!

i know, i'm horrible.

it all depends on what you are looking for...

you looking for a wild ride,

or a wife?

is "sarging" girlfriend hunting?

or looking for a lay?

_________________
what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Mack joking said it is a shit test, but I kind of think that it is sort of a shit test in a way. Just treat her as a normal woman.

i have met some beautiful and fascinating blind women

i have also met some truly awesome deaf girls

i met a gorgeous iraq war veteran that had an arm blown off in an explosion

to be honest, people like that (with disabilities) scare the living hell out of me

why?

because, maybe, due to their condition, they are actually real good people

and i don't believe in that, goes against my belief system that all people suck

lol

scares me to death

it also scares me to death that i could make a move on one of these women

(a woman with a beautiful heart) and actually end up hurting her

_________________
what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Thats very sweet and kind. Get off the forums and talk to her

_________________
Just trying to meet a 10.

u should show up in a wheel chair on ur next date to make her feel more comfortable and u'd also have a great ice breaker (can discuss chair technology)

Say what u want, I'm already going to hell anyway.

You have hit the nail on the head for me there Mack! I'd be afraid of hurting her too...

She is very forward with me regarding her wanting a relationship with me. I just said that I'm a very laid back person who takes things one step at a time and sees how it goes. I'm not giving her false hope but I'm definitely going to go on a date and see what happens.

She is so open with her intensions it's nearly like a female afc. I've even heard tonight through the family friends that she has bought a special dress ect for the date costing a HUGE amount of money....and I mean huge!

Im actually really looking forward to the date as she does seem like a great person with a massive heart.


I never get nervous before a date but I do feel a bit of pressure with this one mainly due to the mutual connections! I'll just have to not pay attention to that crap.

be so careful with this girl.

you can't game her like you game other women.

i don't care what anybody says.

the same rules DO NOT apply.

just be completely genuine.

hell, be afc if you need to be.

check your pua baggage at the door before you show up at hers.

i mean...be awesome...of course.

but no negs, push/pull, freezeouts, false time constraints, and all of that shit.

it will devastate this girl.

_________________
what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

good advice

Went out last night and had a great time with her but unfortunately there was no spark for me. She wants a relationship but I'm just going to go for friendship. The experience cretainly showed me that I was right not to judge!