Hey,hi . Frankly speaking,
im an AFC... Or more accurately, a
wannabe PUA...lol. And i've this
one problem from so many days.
Which
maybe so typical and normal for
you to listen and answer it. See, I'm
having problem in one thing. HOW
TO APPROACH A GIRL IN A
SHOPPING
MALL? Really, i wanna pickup a hot
girl in the mall. But, im suffering
with an approach anxiety. I stay in
India and here, girls are a bit
conservative and narrow-minded
type. So, im afraid of approaching
them. As i feel they would get
scared or confused about what's
happening, and they may reject
me. So, i want your help. Plz man, if
you are reading this, plz help me...
I sincerely beg for your help.
> Thnx alot.

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Pick up girls!!

I don't know much of India but how you explain the type of women their I say this, instead of approaching them have them approach you.

What I mean is, maybe you could find place to lean against, chill and wave them over to you like you have a question. Hold your hand in the air and look them in the eyes like your curious or excited to talk to them.

I dunno just an idea! (:

@Prashant928 - I am from Delhi, Girls are almost same everywhere, you just have to sort them, try to find someone who looks positive - animated, smiling, talkative, dresses sharp, and you will realize all this PUA really works.

I goto malls all the time to practice Prashant so I know exactly what you're
talking about. You see the hot girl in front of you, you so badly
want to approach but then 1000 thoughts begin swirling in
your mind and you start doubting your own capabilities
and if you should even approach at all. I've had that
alot, it's not the greatest feeling in the world, but
trust me once you learn to acknowledge it in
your path it will evolve into learning
experiences rather than failures.

Thing is, if you want to approach quality women
you're going to have to know how to interact
with them accordingly in order to atleast
keep them interested/talk with you
for a brief moment. The interaction
doesn't even have to be long, it
can be under 10 seconds if
need be. Don't force
yourself into intimidating routines
until you learn the basics.
You don't even have to
approach 10's or girls
that are supermodels
at this time. Ease
yourself into it. Once you
feel more confident in yourself,
raise the bar a little bit higher and
approach better quality women.

At the bottom is my link to my youtube
channel, there you'll find a video I
did with my camera on a beautiful
women, the video is called
"Coffee Shop Opener", if you want to
move away from your approach
anxiety but still have a simple
yet effective opener, that is
the best one. I specifically
made that video for AFC's
or guys with approach
anxiety who want
to see how an easy
approach like that is
done. It's not meant to
be a super routine in getting
her number, its just to get you used
to interacting with women you find attractive!

I know what you're going through
in terms of approach anxiety man,
you might be scared of what she
might say, think or do during
the interaction. I can tell
you this, if you show
respect and don't come
off as a threat towards
women, plus show them
a friendly smile...they'll
be quite open to have a chat.

Hope that helps

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'Bitches aint shit' - Chai

Definitely do NOT be scared of them rejecting you. If they reject you, its their loss AND you get to learn from that interaction and fix the mistake for next time. There's so many women out there don't get too down if you get rejected or don't approach.

On that note, APPROACH! Malls are super daunting to start out in, but definitely worth it. Its easy to start a convo to get over AA, like the above poster said - ask for directions or something. Keep doing this and see how far you can push yourself.