I feel like I usually have high status in most social scenes

But it seems to come easier - or rather - the EXTREME alpha's (some guys that have girls flocking despite not being that attractive, and despite being arses have guys following them) all seem to be tall, at least 6 foot.

Thoughts?

Also, the extreme alphas seem to have little personality (blank expressions) but a lot of confident body language.
And why is it that the particular guys I know who I have in mind aren't really intelligent, or at least don't aspire to become anything?

Note: I'm not talking about a socially awesome alpha who has his own business and hot girlfriend blah blah - I'm talking about the kind you see who are immensely confident and don't seem to have much else on their side. They don't talk much, aren't studying anything, don't smile for photos. (I know that's a generalisation, just hoping you guys get a picture in your head of the type I mean. I consider these guys "natural" alpha as they aren't doing anything special in my opinion)

Thanks

Being alpha is a state of the mind. If you act, display and think alpha,
therefor you are. It doesn't matter if your 3ft or 8ft...it's all in your head
and how you want to be perceived by others and how you convey
your personality to attract others to you.

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I think you've pretty much answered your own question. You've said you're not talking about alphas who are socially awesome, and admitted that you're generalising.

I think too many people relate "alpha" to their interrelationship with other people, rather than looking at it as a personal thing. Being alpha isn't about making other people around you feel small, it's not about making other people feel less confident than you, it's not even about wanting to feel more confident than other people.

It comes about simply by being completely comfortable with yourself.

Alphas know what advantages they've got and know how to use it. Now yeah, some girls will find really tall men attractive. So if an alpha is 6'5 and thinks that makes him really attractive, he is likely to be completely comfortable with himself, because he feels physically more attractive/more alpha than other people. If, however, he feels that his height is a bad thing and people see him as a freak because of his height, then that is what will come across. And he won't be getting girls flocking to him.

Height is just one "advantage" that an alpha might use. There's no point worrying about what other alphas haveor haven't got, whether they are tall, short, have a certain sense of humour or whatever. Most of the things that lead to being alpha you can't change. The only thing you can change is the realisation and mindset of what alpha is. If you can identify your advantages and make good use of those, then there's no reason why you can't be alpha whether you're 6'7 or 4'11.

Agreed. There's your answer.

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There seems to be a lot of confusion as to what is Alpha. If you have seen any of David D's stuff he makes being Alpha seem like being a domineering arsehole who needs to control everything and boss people around. Where as I see being alpha as being someone with unshakeable confidence, leadership qualities and someone who adds value to the people around you and inspires people to be better. BEING AN ALPHA MALE DOES NOT MEAN YOU HAVE TO BE A PRICK!!!

Ill give you an example, the boss at work who talks to his workers like shit is still an alpha male but he is the wrong kind of alpha male. Where as the guy who naturally knows how to bring out the best in the people around him and isnt afraid to make decisions is the kind of thing you should be going for.

By the way yes it is very possible to be an alpha male without being tall, its all about your state of mind as well as how well you interact with others around you.

Was Napoleon Bonaparte not alpha?

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no, i'm 6'4,

but i've seen many average or shorter amogs

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