Hey,

I have a problem when it comes to my club game. I often go to clubs with friends just to drink and have a good time. However, when I want to pick up a girl and take her home I have a problem. Club girls just don't seem to be attracted to me if I approach them on the dance floor. I know that girls have shields up in clubs, but I don't know how to overcome this. The only times I've really been lucky in clubs is when girls have approached me or given me IOIs across the dance floor (which doesn't seem to happen often enough to solely rely on!).

It seems to me that girls in clubs are looking for a different type of guy. I'm reasonably good looking, but I'm not a bulky, swaggering guy with chiselled good looks that it seems that these girls want. I have a more kind and I guess innocent face... I can't really help that. I know people will say it's not all about looks. I'm just wondering how I should be acting when I approach a girl. Should I be approaching on the dance floor or should it be at the bar. Should I approach by dancing towards a girl or should I approach using my words off the dance floor (although some of the clubs I go to the dance floor takes up most of the club). Should I be making eye contact with her first and trying to indicate my interest with a wink or cheeky smile before approaching (although I seem to get blown out a lot, maybe I smile the wrong way? ), and how enthusiastically should I dance?

Anyway, that's all I can think to say right now. I guess it's quite a general question and difficult to answer when you can't see exactly what I'm doing wrong, but would be grateful for advice.

I'm based in England if that makes a difference, I don't know if the clubs differ a lot from those in the UK. I am going to the States in February too, so if you have any advice on club game in the USA as opposed to the UK that'd also be great.

I also don't understand club game, id like some help too!
I just find there's too many horny drunk guys and it ruins it for the rest of us who got our shit together...plus I find it really awkward shouting into a girl's ear.
Would love some advice on how to pickup at clubs!

To game at the bar or at the dancefloor does not matter, u can do both.

At bar keep talking at chit chat level. Use seductive eye contact (Triangle gaze) and use heavy and fast escalation while being calm and relaxed.
Saying to a girl that she looks intresting or that she smells good/has soft hands also puts the tension a bit higher and also roots out some unintrested girls.

Opening does not matter how or what, just say something and continue with that. It all matters on you're escalation.

On dancefloor u can also use high five openers or booty bump openers with a spin after them and start dancing with the girl. Keep talking to a minimum here.

Good tips on heavy escalation u can find in the 60 years of challenge method.

Goodluck!

This is a common problem to everyone. Dancefloor game is really complicated and complex. The Bitch Shields are much more alert. It's a feast of cockblocking. An HB can really like you but in front of her friends she may reject you on the dancefloor. Don't take it personally..it has nothing to do with you. Instead here's what you do. Look for IOI's or approach invitations..if you spot one of these just approach DIRECTLY..not INDIRECT. Make eye contact and just go with confidence.

Now if there's a hot girl that you're not sure if she wants you..wait till she goes to the bar. I know a lot of people think you can't open verbally in noisyclubs..but you'll be surprised of how easily it can be done. I actually tried in my last field report with tons of opinion openers and it worked pretty well..sometimes you have to lean in..but don't worry about that just try not to telegraph too much interest. So basically you wait till she leaves the dancefloor and approach her after verbally

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Make eye contact with a girl before you approach, just a second of eye contact in a club can answer a lot of questions.

Loud music can be an issue for some, not for me! It gives me an excuse to get extra close when I'm talking to her let her smell my cologne put her hands on my chest or shoulders, also gives me a chane to make physical contact with her.

I have taken girls home without hearing hardly anything they have said to me whilst in the club.

I LOVE CLUBS! They are like women buffets!

Jay86