I met an HB8 at a club. It has been about two weeks or so, and whatever I did had to be good because she kept on texting me first for about 3 days in a row. I would text her back, and be like I gotta go now im busy right when the convo's reached their peak.

Anyways it was my bday and I told her that she better wish me happy bday.... which she did so I rewarded her for that.

I was feeling brave and invited myself over to her house for dinner, and she actually agreed but it seemed like she wasn't being serious about it, so I told her i was JK and never went.

Anyways, I wanted to really see her, so I asked her to hang out. She said she couldnt, so I tried to play it cool and told her that she owe's me dinner for not being able to go, and in return she should dress up really nice and I would take her to Mcdonalds. She laughed and I told her that I had to go and she shouldnt be shy, but should text me later... well she never did.

So I text her this week on monday and asked her a bunch of random crap. I told her that I thought she was different (which was just a random comment), and she immediately responsed with are you mad at me that I didnt text you back and gave me a huge list about how shes been going through hard stuff. Anyways she keeps on telling me that she likes talking to me and im different in a good way...

So I started talking to her about moving to LA, and she got really happy and asked if she could come... OK I said she could but she'd have to promise not to try to make out with me on the way there and cuddle at night when it got cold.... to which she didnt reply( but she was also getting ready for work).....

Anyways she is pretty hott, and claims that she likes texting (we do text non stop for hours--> which i realized is probably why she lost interest in me) but should I write her off? I feel like she can make time for me but is not doing so, or maybe I am just being paranoid?

Well, right off the bat, one mistake you made is that you told her you were busy 3 times in a row. You gotta mix that type of shit up. You shouldn't do stuff like that multiple times in a row, because then she'll start to feel like you don't like her that much. You do once or twice to create a little intrigue and show you a "high quality" guy or whatever, but do it too often and either your an asshole or she'll think it's not even worth texting you anymore cuz ur always just gonna "have to go cuz ur busy"


But anyway, as far as what you should do now, you gotta call her and set up a date. Dont ever write anybody off until you've at least tried to push it forward and at least see what happens. Just call her and set up a date. If you need info about how to do that, lemme know.

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Yea I definetly do need info.....and I did forget to say that I have tried to call before, but it went straight to her Voicemail....and she never called back and I just played it cool and acted like nothing ever happened.

I will txt her merry xmas tomo

If you didn't leave a message and her phone was off how would she know you called? Try to setup another date. Enough beating around the bush. If she doesn't respond then move on.

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I meant that I called her and she didn't pick up and it went to her voicemaul. I am having difficulties expressing my thoughts today lol

Move on. Nothing more you can do. If she is interested the. She will contact you. You pushing will only lower your value.

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Well she Texted me merry christmas first weird ass girls

you have the option to open again now. See if you can flirt a little bit over texts and setup a date if she is around this week.

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