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girls have types, yes it matters, looks matter, social status matters, financial status matters, your personality matters, don't take it personally, it is the same as a guy only liking black chicks, just a preference, can you defeat it by being awesome?, fuck yeah you can, but if the girl is dead set on not getting with you, she is dead set on not getting with you, might as well not waste your time on a waste of time, spend your time finding girls that want to fuck you, the girls whos preference is you, don't get caught up on specific girls, just try to get girls in general and go out more
Okay cause this girl I like only dates white guys she's a flirt. But she would always seriously flirt with me before I landed in her friend zone. I was just curious on how the dynamics works.
friend zone doesn't exist, there is only the too unattractive zone, and the pussy zone, do your best to not be in either of those zones, all that matters is compliance, will she talk to you if so it is compliance, will she let you touch her, if so it is compliance, will she be alone with you if so you have compliance, will she make out with you, if so compliance, will she let you feel her up? yes? compliance, on and on, you get the point, if you don't get compliance, just be a better person in every aspect you can (in other words be fun to be around and keep trying, without needing anything to happen), don't set your heart on specific girls, try to get all girls and don't get clingy or attached to a specific one, your thoughts and actions will align with this and neediness will shine through, go out and try to get girls in general stop fixating on this one, game her as normal as you would any other girl, but don't place any special importance on her, i know you wont listen, but you should, eventually you will realize you do this with girls that are the most invested in you, once you realize you can de-tach yourself and fix the neediness before it happens, preemptively solving the problem