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I just read this whole thread, I appreciate you sharing your advice.
I have a few questions if you wouldn't mind helping a brother out.
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1) How many girls do you usually approach before you find one that will have sex with you?
I believe every woman i approach will have sex with me, and if they choose not to, they are in fact the ones missing out. by being convinced of this, i project it onto them in a natural "not cocky" manner while still being polite. Look at every girl as a locked safe full of her sex and its up to you to crack it!
Just like a safe, they can all be broken into with enough effort and skill.
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2) How much time would you say you put in with the girl before you have sex? What do you do when they say things like, "Let's slow down and get to know each other first"?
Every girl is different, some take ten minutes some take ten years, none of it will happen unless the girl is comfortable with you, focus on making her feel comfortable! and keep trying, if the pace is slow, thats ok there is still pace= potential, stay at that pace while focusing on the next girl.
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My system that I am going to use in 2012 is to simply approach 10 women a week in the daytime, then go to a club one night a week, a bar one night a week, and a house party one night a week. My goal is to have consistent sex with 3 girls. Sexaddict, what do you think about that system and that goal?
Thank you for any input
I don't think you should work within a system but keep the same work ethic. Day time approaches are great! in fact! they are the best! Do this often. (The great thing about day time approaches is that it's not expected, you have the girl isolated and there is no other competition around. It's gold! (But keep it friendly.) you will see them again, when you set up a date.
Do not set a number or a specific task. You must make any approach completely based on an attraction to them, you need to have your natural animal as your side kick. They don't all have to be super models, as long as they qualify. I am a sucker for a great body.
Be a lion! go after them, but rather then being aggressive physically, you are aggressive mentally. Always be polite, make them comfortable talking to you, once that happens, then you can start to show your sexual side. But here's the thing, if you have 3-5 girls on the go at one time, there is a great chance your getting a lot of consistent action.
Try to keep the girls far apart from one another.
As long as you are continuing to make the effort to meet other women, you will consistently be getting action, you must keep renewing your set of 3-5 as girls will soon catch on to you and be gone, or you will have to cut them lose.
If you are approaching women at your school try to spread it out and not to get serious with any, if it comes up say you need to focus on your school and relationship is not an option at the moment, then slowly fade them out.
It will be tough at first, but if you get into a flow with women, it will progress faster and faster as your confidence builds.
Good luck dude
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