i cant thank you all enough for replying, ive taken everything on board, and ill keep going.

now that i think about it, there is another girl.

she's older in the year above, she's resiting english and she sits next to me.

about 3 months back, she added me on facebook, and wait for it...i asked...." is your hair real??", extremly proud of myself, i went to sleep knowing that she'd be ATLEAST sucking me off tommorow. i was horribly mistaken. she blocked me and told me to get a life.

i never took it to heart, we still joke about it in school.

3 months later.
(we talked inbetween)

so she came and sat next to me when i was doing work on a pc, and asked me for help.

she's seriously hot, and ive observed other guys jump through her hoops so much. so i said... "what is this, private tuition? i should be charging you!" she couldn't stop laughing, so i moved over and helped her. we starting talking about really deep stuff, she broke up with her boyfriend she'd been going out with for 3 years. i told her im in a band, and her eyes widend. so everythings going well, she told me she'd unblock me on facebook, she starts to spin slightly in the computer chair, brushing my leg every spin.

so i invite her to grab so food at lunch, she said oh..ok i'll think about it (we were then quickly inturrupted by the teacher.)

i then started talking to a friend outside the class when it ended, and she came out and said "Bye ___ thank you!!". i smiled, and said bye too.

expecting her to unblock me, and start anew....she hasnt! im confused. mabey im simply not important enough in her hb world. what to do now? if im going to get over this girl, i have to focus on somthing else... im learning guitar now...playing games with mates...and this new girl right here could just be a cherry ontop.

again thank you all for helping me

Watch out with this other girl. It's dangerous if you only have 1 woman with whom you can interact it. I think you know it better than me...so just before you do anything it would be better to make yourself safe from this situation. I'm sure she's got friends. Maybe you can get to know her and her friends. Next time you meet bring this topic up about going out with them. It would do you real good.

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I'm glad u got over the first one.. or at least trying to I like that private tutor thing + for that! Last paragraph though, you started to think what if ? what if? Well, mate she came to you.. Probably she is bored or there is possibility she thinks your cool or attractive. Even if it doesnt work out with her, good idea to hang out with her friends. Expand your horizons and friends. Beside, you might like her friends more Good luck bud

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Stop using canned lines dude, if any of the girls you are trying them on have read The Game, which a lot have these days, then you have blown yourself out of the water for good.

These girls are obviously interested in you for you, not because of these Neil Strauss lines you are using, to me it just seems like they are marginally tolerating that bullshit to get to know you better.

The Game is just a story designed to sell like any other book, you can't take everything you read in it to heart. Think of it as a guide and representation of what is possible with enough commitment and a more alpha frame of mind, it is not the bible there are actually much better books if you are looking to have everything spelt out for you.

And like Mynameisfischer said, get yourself some other options dude otherwise you are going to smother this girl with all your attention and end up obsessing over her as well.

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