Many thanks for the warm welcome to PUA. My name is NoShameGame. My objective is not to increase my kill count or to pick up for the sake of picking up. I am in search of quality, not quantity.
It all began when I started going to bars at the age of 19. I noticed that i was not able to confidently speak with a woman without sketching out and over analyzing the situation. I believe this was a result of being in 2 previous long term relationships, but also, a small-town aspect as well, due to the fact that i was raised in the country and was not as exposed to women and parties, etc. I also noticed i had to improve on my speech (because i had a small-town accent) and my behaviour (i was easily excited and too focused on myself)..
However, I did have certain traits that are attractive..such as purpose, confidence..I also had the natural 'innocent' charm, similar to that of a child..(due to my small-town mind and lack of understanding..) I also have a very strong presence and am spontaneous.
Then on, my journey began..
In November, I began by searching random things like pick-up lines, etc, on google and youtube... I then downloaded "keys to the VIP' and spent some tiime studying that. Meanwhile, my search for infomation continued, and i ended up finding and purchasing "the game" by neil strauss. This was my first eye opener. This gave me the basic foundation of confidence to begin testing my skills. However, i did not want to jump the gun to early, so my readings led to "the art of seduction" by robert greene i think; Highest recommendation, please everyone read this book. This book is my bible..
Then the time came to test my skills. In previous lay situations, i've known the girl through people or through highschool, you catch my drift.. so a side mission was to stray away from that dependance and to begin fresh with completely new girls. Last Friday, December 16th, was my first night testing my skills. I received 5 numbers, 2 bbms, and a facebook add. My strengths were my confidence and energy. The girls knew that if they didnt pay attention to me, some other HB would because i was having a good time either way. Nothing to lose, nothing to gain type deal..I wasnt trying to pick any of the girls up or take them out on a future date..i was simply making friends..more importantly, NEW FRIENDS. I am now focused on two of those girls..one is a 27 year old hair stylst..this girl owns her own business and has her priorities in line.. which i find super sexy because i'm sumwhat sick of young girls my age (21) who dont know what they want and have nothing i can learn from them.. This girl also doesnt go out much, so i will be able to do my mature relationship stuff with her..while continuing to do my PUA at the bars..
And i'm also focusing on another girl that has potential in the future..she is obviously interested now due to the fact she is sending IOI's like crazy..acting interested, initiating and continuing conversation, comments and likes on facebook, etc... She is only home for 2 weeks then back to university.. This girl is a simple girl too..meaning she likes simple things and values family, kinda a country girl style..she may even be a virgin.. who knows... Nice to meet you all and looking forward to working with you..

NoShameGame

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If once you forfeit the confidence of your fellow-citizens, you can never regain their respect and esteem.
Abraham Lincoln

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