So since I broke up with my ex girlfriend last January because I cheated on her with 5 chicks in 2 months, I haven't been able to find a stable girl since. I have hooked up with 16 girls since last January and I only had sex with 7 of them, another 4 ended up naked in my bed, but LMR kicked my ass. Average looks wise are HB 7's with 1 HB 2 in their and multiple 7s and 8s (No I am not proud of the HB2, I was pretty much raped and I was drunker than shit off rum and cokes so I went along with it). My sticking point is that even though I have come across a lot of women (well I think 16 is quite a few in one year with 7 lays and 3 naked chicks in my bed) none of them want to stick around after 1.5 months. I feel like its the type of girls I must attract because they all seem to have daddy issues, and back to back girls had cervical cancer like my ex-girlfriend so I didn't want to put up with the drama that they would cause because my ex caused huge amounts of drama (And her dad is deceased as well). Most of the girls I have slept with have parents that are deceased, or they don't go to school and have no job, but they are sexier than 96% of the women out their. I have this issue that the ones I want to date don't want to date me, but the ones I don't have much feelings for want to date me. Obviously I am able to get sexy girls initially, but something happens during this 1.5 months that doesn't make it stick.

My Personality so you guys know where I am coming from:

I know a lot of people at the bar which causes major social proof for me. I am kind of a dick towards girls, but I listen intently when they talk about something they like to do which makes them dig me more. I hardly ever approach women because that is my only weak point in my opinion, so I met all of these girls through introduction or they pretty much approach me. I am quite aggressive when I know the girl is digging me which is my strong quality because I don't pussy out when the opportunity awaits for the kiss to happen. I tend to whisper in their ear then brush my cheek against theirs then move in for the kiss if they don't move away. I am a fairly good looking guy, about 6 foot 160lbs athletic build with a 6 pack. If I had to be rated I would have to give me a 7.5-8 outta 10 on the guy scale. I do the whole hit them up every 3-4 day, and if they don't respond with interest I give them 2 more chances of me texting them until their number is deleted and I move on. I always try to get a date planned when talking to them by having them tag along for shark fishing/ or goin out for the night in which they usually comply.

If getting a girlfriend is a numbers game I feel that I am doing the numbers, but the girlfriend part isn't pulling through with all my numbers. I see and know a bunch of guys that work on one girl with no others in site and they are able to get that girl to date them exclusively. I feel like there is something wrong and I need to address this sticking point urgently and effectively! Please I need some good advice about what it might be. Maybe I am the crazy one.

Thanks,

Sushiman12345

? any tips anyone

Bro,

Good post... i feel i can relate with all the numbers/happenings in my life right now. My sticking point is F closing... only F closed a few chicks... but building attraction/kiss closing is an ease.... day 2s normally go well... but after that i struggle.

my advise is to keep at what your doing, but be careful of social proofing 2 much. yes 2 much. i kno that sounds stupid... but if a girl sees you around 2 many girls... she might just think your a huge player.. (which u may be..) and this could work against you in the LONG RUN (IE Girlfriend material girl..). Social proofing is crucial dont get me wrong, but at this stage in the game for me I have about 20-40 girls who randomly hit me up/talk to me/ im talking 2/ im taking out ect... And i have one girl who is attracted to me... but she hates that im a man hoe... she CALLED ME OUT on it lol... This girl is a HB10 2.

So to conclude social proof enough to start hitting on chicks and grab their attention/wow them/build attraction. but then once u got her... throttle back a little..make her feel special and like she really matters (this u dont want to do RIGHT away when u meet a girl IE telling her shes beautiful ect...but when u start dating and shit.... the little things like that can go a far ways... really lock her in.)

Gl sir pm me if u have nemore questions,

Duke