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Here are a few pictures of me
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So i'm a junior in high-school. Whenever I enter into a new building, lets say i transfer schools, I hear people telling me that girls start crushing on me. And I do see girls look at me and talking as if they were talking about me. I don't like to assume they like me so i don't think arrogantly, just that they find me interesting. Outside of School, i can pick up, number close, and F Close girls easily, but in school it's completely different. So anyways if I can describe myself. I'm a 5:8 tall Dominican young man. very outgoing and and laid back. like to tell jokes. people tell me i'm good looking and fit (I have my own gym), always walk with confidence, funny, social, have my own life. But i don't understand why girls will be attracted to me at one point and hate me without remorse later. And it's usually girls i have never said a word to. the guys are always cool with me. But when I say something to one of these girls, they give me dirty looks, roll their eyes, gossip about me. tell me i'm conceited. Yet i never tell them anything. but they always look for ways to talk to me and piss me off. I don't let them talk to me the wrong way. i hear them say things like "He thinks he's so hot. He always walks with his chin up. conceited bastard. No one likes him. blah blah blah." some of these girls say it to my face. if they hated me, they would avoid me. but if they call me conceited its because they don't know me, if they don't avoid me, it must mean they want to talk to me, if they want to talk to me, it must mean they want to get to know me because they find me intriguing. and if they liked me before and find me intriguing, it must mean they still like me. I hear most girls avoid eye contact with the guys they like, to not come off as too available. But it doesn't make sense that they will want my attention, but when they have it, they act bitchy, and somehow, these girls get every single girl against me. even the ones i don't know. I promise you, that i'm a very cool guy, but i put my foot down when i'm disrespected and would do the same for a friend. when you meet me you may have a wrong impression of me. But everyone that gets to know me says "Yo you're pretty cool. I heard many bad things about you." None of the guys hate me. What could it be? How can i fix it? Some of these girls I actually like, but with so many girls hating me, it doesn't help me get the girl.
Thats alot of plausibilty to sift through. I will chalk it up to high school mentality. Imaturity runs rampant in schools.
Dude 5"8 is not tall...
Anyway, maybe somebody started a rumour that your gay or anything that one can think of.
it could also be that u think too much. Maybe these people dont even notice you, and u think people are paying alot of attention.
Just forget about what other people think and live your life. The worthwhile people will have your back, the others wont...thats life too.
But I know what u mean, women are always paying attention to me, and i dont know why, it might be the way my jeans fit.
just forget it and live
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