I have a problem.. I have an excellent game at the beginning, I draw attention to me, I become an alpha, I`m confident and everything, the girl is interested, but then, when I get IOIs or when it`s time to make a next step- I don`t do it. And then, when time passes by, but not long, a few minutes, I lose a girl, bcs some other guy comes along and distracts her etc.. i don`t know how to deal with cockblocks and i have problems with proceeding to C phase and a Kiss close..

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What do you mean by 'next step', specifically?

This is an unfamiliar ladder you are climbing. Please advise.

By next step I mean like isolate or kiss close or starting to escalate to more intimate level.. That stuff. I am strong there too, but I only do it when a girl pulls me into the C phase. I don`t do it and it always seemed like something came along that I couldn`t do it, but now I`m starting to see that I`m the problem..

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It's all circumstantial.

Maybe the women you've gotten with have strictly defined limits, because they learned that if you don't have limits - things escalate to a critical level.

It's like anything desirable. Case in point: alcohol. A glass of Scotch every now and then won't hurt, but if you don't have limits - that one glass turns into binge drinking that ultimately turns into alcoholism.

Same with women, except it's not just one variable, but hundreds of different dynamics working synergistically. If they've had bad experiences before, they won't let a one night deal ignite into an uber-intimate ordeal.

Dude you didn't respond at all to the question. It's A1 A2 A3 then C1 right? So here's what you do..if you want to know if you're in A3 you bait her in. Ask her a question like "What do you have more than your looks?" or "Are you a passionate person?" "Name 3 qualities about you" If she responds... you're in A3..that means you have permission to go in C1.. just isolate. Say something like: "Here I have something to show you come with me we'll be back in a sec".. They will say yes if they qualified in A3...from there start some kino and you should number close or kiss close relatively easy..have fun man!

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Tnx man, nice post Helped a lot )

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No problem! Also i forgot to mention this: if she doesn't want to qualify..it means your in A2 so you just change the subject and game a little longer..than you re-ask another A3 question..but now a different one that you asked before. If now she qualifies, go to C1..if not..same thing.. game longer than bait her in again. Give her an IOD if she doesn't qualify and than do a DHV..that will get her want to come with you. I know this seems too much of a step by step process like a computer game but you'll be surprised by how well this stuff works..just try it you'll see!

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