So last thursday 3 new girls started i opened all 3 the first day my target i only got the chance to open her an had a convo for about a minute. Where i work were always moving an its random if im in the same place as her.

So today she was back in yes she doesnt work much i had a pretty good conversation with her im pretty proud of myself just recentley my confidence has boomed i dont no why but im not complaining i use to get it randomley confidence now its just seemed to of stuck.

Heres my problem i just dont understand game i understand the concepts like dont be a bitch, kino etc i just go in an have a conversation an completely forget about game i throw some stuff in there but it happens naturally i made a bit kino with her today. It did seem like i was doing most of the work asking questions she was answering them an following on conversation laughing an that. She also kinoed me but how it happend is she brushed her tits on my back but it was a tight space hopefully intensional.

Now i want to ask this girl if she fancies goin for a drink i no drink = the same as everyone but its so much simpler an i dont drive so can not do realy anything decent. because i work with her im pretty stumped because im more of a direct guy. Im hoping just pure confidence can get her i opened her asap when i saw her an im always laughing joking with other memebers of staff heres what im planning on saying to her tommorow

Hey you single (heard its better than uv got a bf) im 90% sure she is. after that just say to her fancy going for a drink after xmas new year an see what happens any better way to put this even if i fail im not to arsed its just all about facing your fear an pushing comfort zones i think thats whats changed me these last couple of weeks because my confidence is even shocking me lately.

P.s its a big company an im 23 years old an men as old as 50+ are trying to devalue me infront of her an the other girls i thought they would of grown up by then i just ignored him today an carried on chatting to her.

any help guys will be a help

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Cheers mack so should i just grow a set of bollocks an push myself even harder than iv been pushing myself these past few weeks iv basically just been having a conversation with anyone in work coustomers staff i usually can not speak to easily an its beggining to become alot easier.

Whenever a new girl starts at my work i usually just perve on her an it takes about 3 months of her smiling at me showing obvious iois before i speak to her
these 3 new girls boom striaght in there no messing about scary but iv commited myself to sorting this area of my life out women are my life so i need to master this skillset

Should i just go with something like hey you fancy coming for a drink with me after xmas an new years over because im pretty busy of this period of time
i think she will actually say yes my bodylanguage is pretty much 90% in confidence positions, I always catch her playing with her hair even when im not talking to her but im close when i get near her i will always engage in conversation if i get rejected it will be a little awkward but she will be back at uni after the xmas period so might aswell go for it .. I think iv just got alot better at just not giving a fuck about other peoples opinions of me i always get called ginger it use to effect me now i just admit it an even joke about it myself ol ginger pubes here ha

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