hey girls

i can get phone numbers, email addresses real easy (naturally i think). Kissing also isnt a problem (anymore) now when im kissing after a while i open up her bra and feel her tits.
but then.. i dont know what to do I get insecure a little and i dont know how to move on till the fuck. im a virgin btw :S
we keep kissing till the tension is gone. and after a while its like well yeh.. bye

thats my problem, has anyone got any tips?

i havent read any book yet, im currently reading "Mystery Method - The Venusian Arts Handbook"

ever heard about the birds and the bees ? Might wanna give you're old man a call, i think hes the one thats supposed to give you the speech.

On a serious note, just keep escalating, once the twins are out its time to explore the land down under, i mean shit watch some porn that should give you a pretty good idea of how to go about things, and don't psych your self out, its not as hard as it might seem, instincts kind of tend to kick in.

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lol

..sometimes i think i have no instinct. sometimes when im kissing my mind goes somewhere else.. have yall got that ? or is it just me. Like what i need to do in the evening or homework or something :s
maybe i cant get in the mood quite good, i have the same with sleeping. I lie awake quite long till i go asleep. even when i need very much sleep.

anyway
my old man doesnt teach me anything. I raised myself kinda. always tried to work hard at school with the minimum effort. (that sounds weird, but its true) I missed out on girls when i was in puberty. lol i just got out though.

thx for you reply dude

oh 1 thing, i always have in mind that the girl doesnt like it when i touch her vagina, is this correct?
like she doesnt want me touching her vagina. but im not sure, never really tried it. im a kinda wussy.
oh.. but not a total wussy. i mean a different wussy. Like I have throwed a molotov cocktail when a teacher came by when i was 14 lol.
she didnt like it ^^ she didnt get hurt though :s we just wanted to see what a molotov cocktail could do.

peaz

lol u kinda remind me of well me hahaha, i kno what you mean but yeah dont sweat it if she didnt want you to touch her she wouldn't be there in the first place. I'm guessing you were raised in a rather religious environment so thats where you're guilt about sex might be comming from, just relax take deep breath, sex is natural and alot of fun for both parties, i think what you need is probably a steady fuck buddy to break your anxiety and misconceptions.

Hope this helps,

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yeh yeh ! thats it exactly! LOL
its my moms fault btw
but i dont blame her.. well a little. but not much
LOL thx dude

Are you kidding..she wants it just as bad as you. Your thinking WAY to much about just go with it.

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"Why do we fall, sir? So that we might better learn to pick ourselves up."

I know this post is dead, but I just read it and have to say...

Doesn't like you touching her... are you kidding me? That's like... >sigh<
When I was first with a girl, I was nervous as hell. I knew she wanted me to do it, and I knew I wanted to do it, but I was too nervous to do it because... what if I couldn't find anything? Turns out, of course, it's not hard to miss. And if you do you just get her to show you. Maybe neg her for hiding her clitoris from you, heh.

Just put your hand down slowly, if she doesn't want you to she will stop you, and because you didn't just plunge your hand down against her will it most likely won't kill the mood if she does stop you.

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Man if this was true, we'd all be up the creek without a paddle.

They like it, they like it.

Just remember, a girls mind maybe resisting, that doesn't mean her body is. You need to make her feel comfortable. And if she's young, all bets are off.

Let's just say for alot of girls the first time is lousy and a clumsy experience. Because for alot of girls it's a pressure or forced kind of thing.

Don't be one of those guys.

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The key to vagina touching (lol, you make it sound so awkward and impersonal, which is part of the problem), is not to just suddenly shove your hand between her legs. You don't want to scare her, or surprise her, think what it would be like if she just snapped her arm out and grabbed your junk! You'd be like, "OH SHIT! CAREFUL BITCH!" No, you need to be gentle in getting there usually, put your hand on her side while you're kissing her, then slide it over to her stomach, and slowly down her pants, but outside her underwear. Or you can put your hand on her knee, then move it up her thigh and then in between her legs and gently rub. You start a little distance away and work your way there, you don't just jump on it, or the girl is gonna get turned off.

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Can I have permission to use this, I couldn't stop laughing for like 5 minutes the way you phrased it.

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