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PostPosted: Tue Dec 20, 2011 7:32 am 
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I'm new to the game, so I was wondering about this one.

I'm definitely not a girly-man, so this threw me off.

This girl I've been gaming just LJBF'd me with the subject as her line.

I have trouble with body language (Aspie), so what are some things that can be done to come off as more masculine? I have glasses and am a bit on the overweight side, plus I have a whole rack of computer shit, so I'm already at a disadvantage.

I read a topic in another thread talking about "politely" putting your hand on a girl's shoulder to excuse yourself while you do something sweet like giving money to a homeless man. This one was particularily interesting to me.


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you have cited three things:

glasses
overweight
computer shit

contacts
gym
football

i'm kidding, but only half way ;)

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Wearing glasses, being overweight, and using computers as a hobby aren't what make you "non-masculine". It's all in your body language, your vocal tonality, and the way you handle yourself. Is your voice high? Do you stand like a girl with one foot outward? Do you take charge in social events or do you let someone else tell you what to do? These are all things you need to consider.


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I have glasses and am a bit on the overweight side, plus I have a whole rack of computer shit, so I'm already at a disadvantage.
well hahah .. i need glasses .. and i got a whole shitload of computer shit lol ..
dude why the fuck do you worry about shit that you can change ?
why the fuck worry about computer shit .. it means you own shit and you aren't homeless

lose the glasses .. stop gaming that much and work on yourself.. go do some martial arts .. boxing or something.

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