Hey guys,
So I've been in a relationship with this girl for almost 2 years. A couple months ago we got into a huge argument that initiated a break up. However, we eventually reconciled and got back together. But we didn't talk in the period in between for about a 1 month and half. Recently she told me she likes another guy, but loves me and that she's confused on what to do. I could tell it was genuine because she cried when i brought up the topic about her.

What do you guys think I should do? Thanks

i have had sort of the same thing...

my ex was working way to hard on her exams and we dident see or speak to each other for more then 2 weeks... i fell in love with another girl ( i thought)

what it realy is u'r ex is feeling is infatuation... not love... u have to make that clear to her.

OR u could suggest somthing special, she is not to speak to either u or the other guy for a week. after that week she will most likely be over her infatuation with the other guy and have remembered how much she loves u.

IF she does stil have feelings for him then her feelings for u arent strong enough anymore and she's not worthy of any effort to keep her.

Sorry to be harsh but I'd go onto someone else if your looking for a LTR
If she leaves you once she'll do it again, if she likes the other guy she'll try to juggle both of you at the same time and only you or him will lose that, 50/50 chance each.

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To game at your best you have to be willing to do your worst.

What if she told me she's chosen me, but needs time to let the decision "sink in." What is that supposed to mean?

Don't lose your temper and say harsh things towards another human being. Learn how to work your shit out before it gets to that point. In my opinion you are going to lose her no matter what. And you probably are going to have the same problems with the next girl until you learn to keep your composure.

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Walk Hard

The love that you have for this girl is addictive clinging. I know, I've been there. It's very painful to see the purity and fidelity of this addiction damaged.

No real man is addicted to the person they love.

It's a hard truth, but here's how it applies to your situation. It would hurt you very badly to see her go off with this guy. That is the result of the addiction, the first symptom of withdrawal. It would be painful from there, and you would probably crawl back to her unhappily and be rejected every time, unless you found another way to satisfy your cravings for her.

The fear of this pain exists in you now, whenever you think about this other guy she likes.

Now let me tell you why that other guy will probably win, as it stands now (I've lost to that other guy, it hurts). He isn't scared of losing her. He has an infallible confidence, knowing that she has some attraction for him, and knowing that nothing she does can hurt him. You have none of that attractive confidence. The "love" you share is a clinging, pressurized force on her back, driving her back to you. She may come back, but she won't be happy doing it.

Take away the neediness. Trust her to be faithful, and be willing to let her go if that's what she chooses. That's the only way you can be the man she needs.