hi folks!
there is a girl that i alsways see at clubbings, we always flirted a bit in the past, it was always clear that we were into one another. in the past however i always was in a relationship or she was, we never were single at the same time. she currently is engaged (not sure how serious the engagement is however), they have been together for 2 years, they however are a bit open sexually and do threeways now and then.
after adding me on facebook she confessed that she saw me the first time 10 years ago and always had a big crush on me and sort of am the man of her dreams, but she was too shy to make a move. after telling her that i am totally into her too we met and went dancing (her boyfriend was out of the country)..we had great chemistry and i slowly lured her into the idea of going to her place afterwards which is what we did. we made out the entire night, kissed endlessly and couldnt stop making each other compliments, although the undies stayed on we did go to extremes and quickly found that there is a wicked sexual chemistry betwen us and also several things in common outside of bed.
its clear that we will see each other again.
my question: if she would be unhappy in her relationship things would be very clear, but in this instance the way i see it, there is nothing wrong in her relationship, its just that she is really into me on a attraction level..she brought up her boyfriend once and said "well nothing is carved in stone yet...fuck, i dont believe that i just said that"
..so how exactly should i proceed if i dont only want to keep this on a sexual level? should i try to see her as often as possible and really persue her or should i act as though she were a single, in this case i would take things more slowly and be more reserved...any input, experience or advice on boyfriend destroyers are highly welcomed!
CHAT