You are staying consistant with the reports and doing some productive things! I wanna see some field reports next week though!!

Week 3 Day 1:

I was a bit annoyed I didn't get all the tasks completed last week, So today I hit the tasks hard, At work i ordered some X mas presents, Only one left to get.

I then went through my finances I stopped a monthly payment saving £110 per year, I got a lower phone contact saving £156 per year. My Electricty went down £10 per month saving £120.

Looked at Car insurance quotes, mine is far too high but never really shopped around, I have estimated I could I pay it all in one go I could save nearly £200 per year. So thats nearly £600 I have cut down.

I also cooked food for my lunch for the next few days to stop me needing to buy anything.

When I got home, I cleared some of my car and then put washing on, did the washing up, emptied the bin, cleaned the kitchen and microwave, before finally hoovering.

Went and played football before coming back and listening to 30 mins of Audio from practising the power of now.

Smooth, I am definately wanting to get involved and into the more 'fun' part but I feel I want to put in hard work to get a solid foundation. I don't have much spare money at the minute. So sorting out finances getting everything clean and tidy and improving my innergame and confidence needs to be addressed.

Then I can re learn and jump right into the materal and applyng it. I have a few nights out planned for the rest of December meaning oppurtunities to try it out

Week 3 day 2:

Ordered my final Xmas present at work and got my hair cut, then went to the gym before dinner at my parents. decided to just chill out when I got home.

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Day3: Went to the gym after work, decided to start 60 years of challange reading got the first 20 pages, it was about approaching.

Things to take away were approaching doesnt mean you are bad with women if you get a negative reaction and magic number which is how many approaches you do before you get a legit lead on a decent women. I look forward to going into more of his stuff.

Day4:

Had another Work Xmas party, got drunk had fun felt really confident and it was the first time I had a few drinks out for nearly 2 months. Arranged another night out tomorrow and the day after so should have some oppurtunities to see where I am in regards to reactions with women.

Week 3 Day 5:

Today I was going out! I got home from work and straight away cleaned the whole flat. I had 2 of my friends coming round first before heading out. I got some beers chilled and ready. Before they arrived I flicked through the 60 years of challange I had already read and then a couple more Pages. I then put on some upbeat music to get in the mood.

We started out in a pub round the corner, not many young people in it, same with the next one. I made ye contact with one of 2 girls walking past as my friend went into a shop.

The third pub we went too, we were sitting down, then the 2 girls came and sat on the table next too us. My friend made a comment to the first while I made eye contact and smiled at the other. She was half sitting down, stopped and made her way next to me... She was about an HB 8 slim blonde and nice face. We started talking I instantly noticed her KINO'ing me by leaning into me or touching my arm. after about 10 minutes of good vibe fun conversation. She went to smoke invited me to come too.

I said I would join, waited till she was outside before I got up. Now I started to talk to her friend at this point outside. We went back in and I went to get my friends a drink, when I returned the girls had left... bit gutted as the number was definately attainable there and I should have just stayed with the blonde rather then talk to her friend.

We went to a club after this, had a dance then got talking to a slightly older women, I cannot remember what we were talking about but then I thought.. yeah I will just kiss her, so I did.

I then walked out as my friends had just gone out and the club was being emptied.

Overall, I had some success and with just some eye contact I got opened! but I need to take advantage when the oppurtunities come to me.

Week 3 day 6:

Went out with my sports team, started off in a pub got some eye contact with a barmaid, she asked if I wanted a drink, I said no and smiled, she smiled back.

Then went to a sports event it was freezing and I was shattered, we were meant to go into town afterwards but we didn't I was a bit disappointed. But I had low money anyway.

Week 3 day 7

Today I wrapped some presents, had a family meal before hanging out with some friends.

When i got back read for 60 years or challange and then listen to E. tolle before bed.

Week 3 Review:

- Finish off flat tidy, (Organise 2nd bedroom, shoe rack, general cleaning, washing up, hoover and washing) - DONE
- Clear out car (clean inside and out, tidy boot) - DONE
- Continue Erkhart Tolle - DONE
- Go to the gym x2 - DONE
- Start 60 years of challange -DONE
- Start making eye contact smiling - DONE
- Get a hair cut - DONE
- Buy Xmas present and get them wrapped - DONE
- Open at least 1 girl on a night out - DONE
- Action the finance savings I highlighted last week - DONE

Pretty good week, got everything done which is great. Got a kiss close and opened by an HB 8. Got back into the swing of things at the gym and would like to keep that up. But as Smooth said I need to step it up now.

Week 4 Tasks:

- Keep Flat tidy (washing, washing up, hover ETC)
- Get to the gym x3
- Finish off E.tolle ( 1.5 hours left)
- Finish off first 60 y o challange pdf (25 pages left) + 2nd PDF
- Open 3 shop staff and ask where something is
- Open 2 girls on night out
- Try 1 number close

So I have my basic tasks now which are keep going to the gym and keep flat tidy, I am going to step up reading game material now and try and open a few girls this week on nights out. This week I have a house party and a night out planned so could be some good chance to complete the difficult tasks.

Week 4 Day 1:

Straight from work I went to the Supermarket, while walking round I was 90% sure I saw the friend of the HB8 from a few day ago, I wasn't 100% but I bottled going to talk to her so many things ran through my head why Not to do it and I was pissed off I didnt go speak to her.

When I got home, did washing up and the washing done.

I listened to 30 minutes of E. tolle

Day 2:

After not talking to the girl yesterady, on my lunch I went to 2 shops and asked for where my items were the first was an older lady, the next was a girl about 20 and decent looking. Felt so easy to just walk up to them and start talking when you know they are going to be helpful.

I went to the gym after work, before going for dinner round my friends.

Day 3:

Went to the gym, finished off the 1st pdf

Day 4: Went to the gym, finished off e.tolle

While at the gym I asked the receptionist if the gym was open the next day.

Day 5:

Went to the gym again, I had dinner at my parents house and had plans for the house party. One of my friends who has moved away who is the most natural successful guy with the ladies I have ever met is back. He arranges to meet me later in the evening.


So I have dinner go to the house party straight after, I didnt know many people there and was in a terrible frame of mind. The Natural friend was meant to call me and say where to meet, he didnt and so I am at this party unsure of whats meant to happen. I didnt feel great and there were only 4 girls 3 of which were taken. I didnt feel in the mood and so went home after a few hours. I was pretty frustrated at my friend as I could have relaxed stayed and had a few beers at the party.

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Day 6:

So during the day, i read alot of 60yoc I really like what he has said so far and hope to put some of his techniques into practice.

The night, started round a friends before heading into town, I was Xmas themed peacocked, started off in a pub drinks flowing, a few people opened me due to the peacocking. At one point I was a t the bar and did a scan, I saw a slim lady looking at me about hb7, I made eye contact smiled and did the non verbel opening 'cheers' with my beer. she burst into a smile turned away and looked back smiling again. Now I didnt open her but that gave me alot of confidence that I can open more girls on a night out doing similar.

We had 2 girls in our group, friend of friends really, one I have never spoken to but had met before. The other I had met a few times but we werent exactly friends. I basically practiced on them both, mainly holding eye contact and basic level kino. I am awful at both I normally am just standing a short distance away rarely making eye contact and never touching. I figured this is probably my biggest weakness when it comes to attracting girls.

The night was good, danced did spin moves on them both, I got the phone number of the one i knew better. As we were leaving the club I saw someone i knew and I said Hi. Her sister was with her who I had not met and I opened her and we spoke for about 5 minutes before all my friends were leaving so had to go.



Day 7: Xmas day, round parents

Week 4 review:

- Keep Flat tidy (washing, washing up, hover ETC) - DONE
- Get to the gym x3 - DONE
- Finish off E.tolle ( 1.5 hours left) - DONE
- Finish off first 60 y o challange pdf (25 pages left) + 2nd PDF PART DONE
- Open 3 shop staff and ask where something is - DONE
- Open 2 girls on night out - DONE
- Try 1 number close- DONE

Only one I didnt fully complete was the reading, I read about 60 pages but there is still about 20 left on the second pdf.

So it has been one month since I have started, and on the girl front it is very typical of the usual for me. A few conversations here and there no massive interest shown. I might has a quick drunken kiss in the dancefloor but no real quality leads.

Overall all,I have kept this journal up, it isnt going to be easy, I have kepy my flat tidy and got back to the gym and have been pushing my comfort levels and behaviours. I hope to see some more success soon.

Week 5 tasks

- Keep house tidy
- Gym x 3
- finish off 60 years of challange 2 pdf and start third.
- Ask 5 shop staff where something is/question.
- Open 3 girls
- Try 2 number closes

Week 5 Day 1:

Today was Boxing day, I had stayed over my parents and all day today was spent there too. The girl whose number I got messaged me on Facebook. I decided to text her back. I wouldnt want a relationship with her, but I thought I would see if I could get her to mine. Initially I thought she must have some interest from the night out and she got in contact with me.

Needless to say i dont think she got the hint, I wasnt being direct as I didnt want to fully commit. I am also not great at follow up I can get numbers but 95% of the time nothing come from it not even a date, thats something to research and look at what I could do instead.