I have this problem with this girl that i am attracted to, I am attracted to her and shes in our group of friends that we hang out with. I just joined the group of friends a few months ago and i cant be myself around her because i get really nervous and shy, but around the rest of the group i act normal, meaning myself.

The problem is i cant be myself around her when im attracted to her, what do i do if i want to be myself but at the same time not act nervous and shy?

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Congratulations, you're a normal guy.

Just be embrace the feeling of being nervous and shy as a good thing, it's hardwired into all of us. This is agood thing! it means you want to fuck the girl. When you realize it's because you want to fuck her and you focus on it, you start to forget about it.

Every time I feel a bit shy about an attractive woman, i simply remind myself: "I'm a motherfucking Pick Up Artist. Make it happen."

I just do it to hype myself up and to remind me of all the hard work I've put into this lifestyle. It also makes me realize that I've been through worse things than (whatever it is) so it gets me going.

My 2 cents.

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All of us know the feeling, bro. So, here's what you do... Get excited! Make it a fun challenge and be playful with her. If you're nervous around her and she senses that, she's likely to open herself to negs and c & f material by trying to control the pace of the interaction. Once you feel you have control of the frame after you're playful with her, you are alpha, even if you appeared nervous at first. This may get complicated as she's likely to shit test you a couple times, especially if she's really good looking, but if she's shit testing you, that should boost your confidence because you know she's interested. Just get used to interacting with her like a PUA, and the butterflies and the shyness will wear off.


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