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Well I have a deep voice but I apparently sound like I talk through my nose (Medical reason). I Never even noticed I did this..Still kind of dont, Untill a guy pointed it out to me and then another dude pointed it out to me. The real problem is that I dont want to suck at picking up a girl because of something I cant change, Also I heard its not what you say but how you say it... what does that mean? Am I going to suffer bad in game because of this voice?
Hey man.
well, as long as you dont sound like an elephant in distress, i believe you dont need to worry. Tonality is important, so you can lay subtle nuances in what you say. 'its not important what you say but how you say it' is a guideline, not a rule. It means that if you say 'i love you' like you are reading the financial page in the NY Times, it doens't have the same effect as saying it like you are really feeling it.
Besides, it does matter what you say, because saying to a girl ' i really need to poop' and say it in a way like you are screaming horny, nothing is going to happen. you aint gonna have sex (and i she does propose to, i dont think you would like that kind of sex).
Perhaps a word of wisdom i stole somewhere: If somebody says your voice sucks, that makes an opinion. If you say your voice sucks, that makes it a flaw.
cheers!