What is the best way to ask a girl you have been on like 3 or 4 dates with. Are waiting a few days. Dont want to fall into the friend bubble. This question or in other words.

Next time we hang out I want to fuck. She is a tease, How do I insure that I can drive this one home.

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Flop ya cock out.

Usually gets the message across.

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ahahaha, Vic.. This is not a girl I met online. lol

It is actually a HB8 I like. I am having a problem moving into sex with her. She is taking it slow. Not for lack of effort on my part.

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That "tsunami of sexual escalation" thing would work here too man. Just push it and push it and push it. Even the toughest girls will cave eventually and love you for it.

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Vic I think your right. I am just not going to whip my dick out at her though. I will think and talk more sexy time. Thanks buddy. Your kind of inspiring. lol

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I've successfully done that a few times, I'm on verge of being friendzoned and I just hit the accelerator and gone mega-sexual on her. Usually they are a bit resistant at first because you've obviously changed the pace a lot, but they crack after a while (usually only an hour or so if you're good).

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Hey Cha, if you've been on 3 or 4 dates I assume you two are making out or more. Friends don't mae out so you're on the right path. Like Vic said keep pushing forward. What I'll do is if I put my hand up a girl's shirt and she stops me, I'll continue making out (kissing her neck, bite on earlobe, etc) and try again in a few minutes. Rinse and repeat, next thing you know the girl is in your bed

You know, you are suffering from analysis paralysis. You are overthinking it, waiting for some magical words or lines that will ensure that she will have sex with you.

Guess what, they dont exist.

Do you want to catch her in a logical agreement so that she will promise to have sex with you? The best way to get there is to kino escalate and build some sexual tension. Get her in the mood physically and emotionally, not logically.

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bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Ask a girl?

You dont ask sex. You dont explicitly state the two of you will have sex, you just put both of you in situations where sexual escalation could happen eg. Talk about things that lead to sexual thoughts, do activities that could lead to more kino.

You know the song by lmfao shots? "the ladies love us when we out shots, they need an EXCUSE to suck our cocks."

Just give her an excuse so she could tell her friends "one thing led to another."

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The thing is I do escalate. I have been in situations were we should have made out or more based on where I was taking the night. She has seen most every aspect of my life. She is just a tease. Like she likes to see me put in the effort to get us to that place. Then she says something stupid like "this is not the moment." I have hit her hard with my intentions and have turned down other booty calls just to go out with her. I really am hoping to land this girl she is alot of fun. But now I just do not know for sure.

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I was in that same situation as an AFC once and what I did is I said to her "I can't hang out with you NOT sleep with you, it's too frustrating."

Anyway long story I didn't hear from her for about a week, then I get a text from her basically saying "Ok lets do it"

Not saying this is best method but it did work once.

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Did you escalate at her or your home? Did you try plan a date at her or your place? If you create sexual tension and escalate at a public place, turn her ON big time wher do you expect to have sex - in the bathroom or in public ?!

Create somelevel of comfort during the date with light touching. Go back to her place or yours if you had planned the date somewhere else - and then escalate from there.

Agree with Marc convenience is a big thing for chicks (and guys actually). If a guy and a girl are 1 on 1 in a private house, it's just so easy to have sex. I don't know about you but it's not often I'm 1 on 1 with a HB at my place and NOTHING happens. I find any excuse to get HB's back to my place because once they are there you're chances of F-closing increase dramatically.

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so I F'd closed the first time in a long time using just my game.

After 3 days apart. She came over and we basically had sex with our clothes on. You have to remember she is 19 and I am 28. The next day we did the real deal, after a very nice make shift date. She is a curious girl.

I know I over analyze things that happen. But she always wants to know all about my life and tells me little about her life. I wish women could be more direct about what they want. I want to work on making her a regular FB. I think that is what she wants but is not going to come up and say that.

Oh by backing off and not putting her on a pedestal, she came running back around.

After I got laid it was a funny feeling that came out. Something like a great feeling that I did not need her any more. That I put too much thought into this nice girl. It was different. I think I felt more detached from the sex then I ever have about sex. It was like the game ended after I got laid. Now I want to go back out and try to turn the next best thing. Thx all.

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A lot of work just for a one night stand.

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