Haha, you guys. This post is fucking epic! Keep it up

He who loves 50 people has 50 woes; he who loves no one has no woes.

Cant remember how I came across this thread, but fuze props to you. I wanna know... you get them to the edge of the cliff so to speak like you said... He woulda forwarded her the mail.... not answered or replied again...

but what wouldve been the final move to make her come back?/push her over the edge?

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I forgot all about this lol

Well at the point she came by to get her stuff, if he would if just said something along the lines of " I already forwarded your mail, I left the shed unlocked so you can get your bike if you need to" Theres a high % chance based on her behavior she would of broke down and began to pour her heart out. Which at that point he could of steered her in any direction he wanted to. She would of obeyed any command and done anything to get back in his good graces... Just as long as he maintained the frame.

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OP send her this!

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wow i had forgot about this too lol

its funny that I came across it again.

Its been around 2 months since I've last seen or talked to her.. And just a couple days ago I get online to check my e-mail and what do ya know, there was an e-mail from her.

It was basically telling me what she's up to...meaning she's visiting family out of state for the next week...she was just typing a quick e-mail but wasnt sure if i'd even reply blah blah


But I know what it is....all the dudes she went after left her face down in the dirt, so now she's trying to contact me again because shes all alone once again, realizing that she is having a lot more trouble than she thought she would when it comes to finding someone better than me.


I've been working on getting my shit together, and improving myself. I quit smoking in October and started eating very healthy. And I've been trying to get with other girls..Havn't had much luck on that tip, but...ya know..shit happens like that sometimes lol


And Breaking Bad, I checked out the link you posted....and that is fucking classic!!!! I can imagine pretty much any female being on the edge of her seat while reading that message just to figure out you're only asking her what she prefers to drink out of coke and lemonade lol that's great lol

+1 to you. Now this, is how you handle a breakup. good work my man.

I think you just had to do this from the start.

Fuze's advice was solid. But I wasnt clear if what YOU wanted was even to try and win her back or not. Hence the inconsistency in behavior towards her, not interested, then interested. It was in-congruent.

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I can be hard headed sometimes lol

I mean, of course I didn't want her to leave.. and at the time, it seemed like she didn't want to either...So it was like...yeah I want her back...wait a minute, fuck that..nevermind...naah she can eat shit...lol Now I don't really give a fuck...It sucks looking at it like, I havn't had luck yet with any other girl thus far, after the breakup...but at the same time its like....what do I really miss about not having HER around? I can't really think of many things to be honest.
Especially now that she's hit me up after all this time...I mean, I know she's tried her luck with a few guys, and they took what she was offering and told her to take a hike when it came to a serious relationship. And the guy I caught her e-mailing, recently entered a relationship with another woman, apparently...found that out the other night at a party...So I know why she is hitting me up.

It all happened before when we first met. When we first met, she was still in high school and was afraid to bring me up to her parents since I'm a couple years older. We were close, but it came to the point where we couldn't date, so she started looking into other guys....which is understandable...but as soon as all those failed, there she was coming back to me....but since we were older then and she was done high school, decided to give it a shot........but look, the same thing happened....She went for some other guy, didnt work out...tried a couple more..didnt work out...now here she is hitting me up again.....Its the same pattern repeating itself. So if I were to take her back this time...I can only think to myself that the same shit would eventually happen again, ya know?

So I'm pretty much like whatever...I'm continuing my search for a better female...if she wants to fuck, I might fuck her..but I don't think I'd be interested in another relationship with her.

Don't sleep with her, you'll only prolong the time before the better chick does enter your life.

You'll kind of reset the clock by even sleeping with her... Once you make the decision to move on, someone new will come into you life. It's fate.. Just wait for it.. if you go back to fuckin her you will be setting yourself back.. You doing fine, keep it moving motown

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I'm going through the same thing. Broke up after two year. Had great relationship hung out all the time been study this stuff for two year and she knew it and liked it. She would always tell me the relationship was reversed and she was whipped. I took advantage of the time of having the power. I got sick beginning of nov and wasnt crabby for like a week and one day in school and meet up with her in the hall during class and she says I wasn't being sweet at all then said even her mom thought we should break up so I said fine. Then called her later to fix it like I always did and she said we should take a break which was a first so I said fine I wanted to court her anyway (be a sweeter to her) start taking her out again etc. She reply all happy like yay. Then sent me playful txts saying that courting her wasnt gonna be an easy challenge So next day I go to see her during class and when I walk by I see this guy talking to her so I just walk away. (The guy had started txting her like a month b4) she would tell me he would just sat stuff like "you have a really cool name" and just nice guy stuff. So anyway we hangout and ask about him she says she still interested in me or else we wouldnt be hanging out. So I tried sweet stuff and am just nice her and she tells me I'm making it really hard to not get back with me but one of her gfs told her to just give it a week so I withdraw and say fine whatever don't talk to me intell you reach your decision. See my first question is should I be sweet and show affection or just make her work for it again because I'm torn since that why she wanted to take a break. Anyway that upset her so she decide a few days later to call me and say she thinks we should just be friends. So I freak out for a few days and turn into a wuss half the time saying I wanted her back and the other time saying fine whatever trying to be a challenge. So I remove most contact and when I get back from thankgiving break I find out that the dude had been calling her every nite and talking for like 3 hours just being funny and sweet helping her get over it and now she was wearing his necklace and stuff and so I asked her about it and she says he's been really sweet and nice. So I keep going inbetween sweet and then whatever I don't care that great you have him. So then over xmas break I tell her I've been making things weird and that we should just forget about everything and make new memories and try to be happy. She reply if I meant as friends then sure. Turns out she went out on her first date and he asked her out and she said yes. So I say that great I'm happy for her. & Then made small talk for awhile. Then for the last two weeks I make no contact. She make contact yet. Any Advice

Sounds like its over. Move on, like she has.

Either you decide to actually be friends, nothing more (which I probably wouldnt be able to do) or you break all contact with her altogether.

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I texted her yesterday after a few texts she said she liked it better when we didn't text. She explained that it was "happier that way" and that I was an ass and every time she thought about me she felt like shit. I would agree that she moved on. However she did say just a few weeks back to a friend that half the time she wants to just get back with me and forget this whole thing happened and the other half of the time she just wants to tell me to screw off. Plus around the same time she stopped talking to the dude for like a week and started texting me about cuddling and flirting and what she should get my mom and sister for christmas? Any ideas on what's going on?

She's tuggin you along just incase her an the other guy don't work out.. Forget it her, move on.. This is completely different than the situation in the post.. MOVE On

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I know this thread is old, and hasn't seen the light of day in a while...but instead of making a new thread, I'll just bump this, so anyone that may run across it can see this as well lol..


So its been over a month since I've last posted in this thread...Last time I posted, I had randomly gotten an e-mail from my ex...which I think I explained a few posts above this one..

I just logged on to my e-mail to check mail before getting ready to call it a night, and I saw once again, I have an e-mail from you know who..

It basically says:

"Hey, we haven't talked in a while. I wouldn't know what to say anyways..I just thought I would e-mail you to let you know that I haven't forgotten about you, not that you care lol..But yeah, have a good week."



I find it kinda funny, and kinda sad...Cuz I know she thought she had everything planned out when she left...but unfortunately it seems majority of her plans backfired. At least the ones relating to guys.

A female friend of mine and I went to the outlets last week so I could get new shoes..and she mentioned my ex posting things on facebook which gave my friend the impression that my ex regrets her decisions and misses me due to other posts about how she's tired of being taken advantage of and guys treating her like shit basically lol..I shrugged the information off because I really have no use for it. But its odd she e-mails me instead of texts me or calls me. Its odd she even tries to contact me at all lol

Anyway, just an update...may not be a great one, but just wanted to post that however many months later shes still hitting me up in that fashion

Bump

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