Okay I'll make this short and sweet.. How can you have friends with benefits? She's a coworker.. Spent time with her couple of times.. I showed kino but sometimes I don't get a response back.. Sometimes I flirt and it feels like she disregards it.. I was upfront from the get go that I'm in a relationship..

Need response and/or ideas on how to handle current and future situations..

Try not to focus on the IODs, just focus on any IOIs, it seems to increase your chances. Since you're in more of a positive mental state.

How to have friend with benefits? All you have to do is make it a sexual relationship, and be honest with them, tell them that hanging out and having fun is all you're looking for at the moment, and you're happy being outside a relationship and not interested at this point in time.

I used to fuck around with my former assistent manager,

Like mi1ooo98 said, let her know ur looking for some fun at the moment.

Good luck.

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Thanks guys.. But I was wondering how would I go about letting her know I want to have a friends with benefits with her.. I mean I flirt to make it sexual.. N indirectly letting her know that I'm interested.. But I don't want to give her compliments on looks alone.. But I might have to go that route.. I tell her that she's interesting and that what makes me like hanging out with her.. The other day.. I ran the cube on her just to have that connection.. Then we I ran the roller coaster routine just to have sexual conversation and held her hand the whole time for kino..

I just want to make sure I play this card right.. I don't want to be in the LJBF zone.. N don't want to have a relationship with her either..

So how would you guys go about taking the steps? We hang out a couple of times before and she seems getting comfortable with me...

Just fuck her!!! Seriously just concentrate on getting in her pants first and then cross the FWB/LTR bridge when you come to it.

JUST FUCK HER ASAP

The end.

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I think that's the Idea.. I do wanna have sex with her.. But I guess my question is how do I go about that route.. How do I let her know that I want to be physical with her and not just saying it? What else can I do other than Kino escalation or how can I give out hints? I wanna keep the friendship since I think she's really an interesting person.. But I'm also physically attracted to her..

Honest Advise - Don't do it . Since you already dont know what to do the chances of you messing it up are good, not a situation if you want to continue working there. And even if you get the girl as your F w/ B it would still mess up your working equation/relationship. Unless you dont plan to work there anymore/in the near future, Dont bother.