cently been told by a girl I had been seeing for 2 months she just wanted to be friends. Told her dont really do friends but we could hang again in the future and see what happens.

She lives in the UK, I live in NY. Went to a party the other night and she must of known due to Facebook. She sent me a text asking how it went.

Me: Too much fun. May have found a girl who could even out do you (Was refering to her partying)
Her: Are you trying to make me jealous?
Me: Haha of course not. everyone was just a bit wild. Was the first time in ages Ive had such a crazy night.
Her: Well whats your point then?

Do I reply? If so how?

Any advice?

Rule of thumb, don't ever try and compare girls, even if your trying to be complementary. Get her jealous by actions such as talking to a another chick or dancing with one. It doesn't really envoke the same type of jealousy when your comparing her verbally to her face/texts lol.

You can ignore the text and not reply then chat her up another time and change the frame of the conversation to something positive. Or you can reply with something like "I guess what I was getting at was your cute drunken ass was missed and I wish you where there". You already told her you don't do friends which is a push and then you basically told her you replaced her with another crazy fun chick which is another push so now you need to pull. Hope this helps.

i think shes one of these girls that wants what she cant have. If I say your cute drunken ass was missed is that not just admitting I miss her?

Shouldnt I say something like "I actually managed to find someone who can party just as hard as you. Only difference is shes doesnt bite which I must admit is a bit boring"

(This girl loves biting when shes drunk)

Or a combination?

I guess what I was getting at was I actually managed to find someone who can party just as hard as you. Only difference is shes doesnt bite which I must admit is a bit boring. Your cute drunken ass was still missed.

Every girl wants what she can't have. But there comes a time when you go to far in hard-to-get and cross the line into disinterested and than she may move on. You want to let her know you miss/want her. Just make sure you continue to be hard to get.

The biting text has potential, inside jokes are always good and its somewhat of a pull since she knows you like it. I just think from her perspective it may sound like you're moving on since you told her you didn't want to be friends AND you've found a new chick whose awesome.

Edit: Biting as in drunk biting your arm? or when you hook up and she'll bite your lower lip gently? I wouldn't admit to the girl that your hooking up with other people... further reinforces the you've moved on thing.

Cornflake I agree, but shes made it very clear to me that she sees me as a very good friend but does not want to do it romantically anymore. I think this was because I went from being a player to giving her too much attention whilst at the same time her ex who she dumped started seeing other girls which got her interest back. She use to say to me hes still so in love...blah blah

I know a text wont change "life" but my comment obviously riled her a bit as she seems to be annoyed by it. Which I take it is good?

Do you have a goal with this chick? Or are you just trying to have optimal witty responses for texts? lol. She is in the UK and your in NY so I would suggest you move on. Perhaps her getting annoyed by the text is a sign that she still has feelings but it appears she has a lot of feelings for a lot of people and doesn't really know what she wants in life. If the only thing she likes is things she can't have the only way you can appease that is by not letting her have it.. ultimately what does that do for you?

Shes moving back to NYC in a few months. So i wanna play it cool and not appear needy. I do like her a lot. Just neeed to get across to her that i have options and am the prize. With that in mind how would you play it?

Would appreciate if any other guys could give their thoughts as well as Id like to reply before it gets too late.

"Me: Haha of course not. everyone was just a bit wild. Was the first time in ages Ive had such a crazy night.
Her: Well whats your point then? "

Why did you have to justify that lol. She can see right through you.

Next time tell her.

I just answer your question, you dont need to be jealousy, next time you can come with me, if you can handle wild nights ofcourse.


My advice, is to postpone any , and i mean any invitation she drop on to you.

When you know, a good party, or maybe something nice, invite her, be cool but dont focus too much attention on her, And play push pull, works like a charm.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

Thanks Snake.

Would appreciate if any other guys could give their thoughts as well as Id like to reply before it gets too late.