Man this is probably one of the worst cases uve ever heard of.It started off about 3 months ago with this girl in my College Algebra class. Since im a freshman and college just started i dint have any freinds and shit.As the month passed and i made new freinds i noticed she showed some intrest in me.But i shrugged her off .Coz at first i dint feel attracted to her. i snubbed her off a couple of times wen she tried talking to me .And now i REGRET it! .she wud actualy care to talk to me and no other guy in class.She literaly ignored all the male population in the class.but now as the semesters about to end i suddenly have the hots for her but i dont know where to start..any help in this wud be highly appreciated.oh and p.s: alot of the girls in class think im the prize and shit.And she thinks im snobbish or something .Even though we share the mutual freinds with this guy whoz not in our college but i just cant think of a way to gather her attention.Where do i start ???[color=brown][/color] [/i][/u]

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This is like the exact same situation I am in too
I go to a community college.
in my COLLEGE ALGEBRA class I met the beautiful & very smart.
talked to her all semester but didnt show enough interest til the end.
in the last couple weeks of class i got her number and made plans to meet.
that date went good but just got a hug out of it.
I called her to go to a party with a friend his date and myself.
the party was fun, we were drunk and hungry at 2 am.
my friend and i took her back to her house after droping off the other date.
she cooked us pasta, i helped while my friend slept on the couch.
decided to leave after that, go outside and then turned aound knocked on the door, when she opened it back up i said "i think i forgot somehting" and kissed her on the cheek then made futured dinner plans and left.
called her the day after....
me-hello, bla bla bla did you figure out your work schedule for next week?
her- yes, but i dont think we should see eachother.
me- what, what do you mean
her- it seems we have different intentions. (refering to the kiss)
me- the only reason i did that was because i was a lil drunk, i just want to be friends anyway. (she would have said it if I didnt)
her- oh ok then
me- so ya, lemme know when your next day off is and we will hang out.
her-ok bla bla bla
me- ok ill talk to you later then... byeeeee


I hope yours turns out better than mine haha I just waited waaaaaaay too long to talk to her.
i think the only way i can recover is to take her to another party or something and give all my attention to another girl and with new years coming up, now is the perfect time with all of the parties.

Ill keep you posted

Man i can so relate.but wat makes it ten times worse is that atleast u get to date....over here i cant date the girl witout asking her out first....anyhow yeah keep me updated and any PUAs please help...i need all the help i can get right now

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Well, now. If you want a friend, be friends with that girl. But, if you want her as a girlfriend, man you screwed up. I don't personally think that you can be a "real" couple after being friends. My advice is, find someone else, and dont look back. You can't repair past, but you can prevent past from happening again. So, three points:

1) DON'T BE SHY. Just go for it. To mowe foward with a girl, you must not be afraid to lose her. If you can make friends, you have a quality - you are NOT boring. So use this quality in sarging.

2) SOI. Statements of interest. If you tell girl she is sexy, she will think of you as a boyfriend, not a "boy-friend", that is a normal friend. Friends don't look "that way" on each other. She will see that you have sexual interest right away.

3) DO NOT LET HER TO THINK OF YOU AS A FRIEND. DON'T LET HER TO TELL YOU "YOU ARE MY FRIEND" OR "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS". Trust me, moving from friends to sexual couple -and remainig there- is almost impossible.

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Ur right man .i completly agree.but see the thing with my case is.that im actualy talking to her now.just wen the semesters about to end .and i relize that she doesn't make any eye contact during the time we talk.i mean she did but wen i cracked a joke and flirted a bit she was a bit hessitant to meet my eyes and she was constantly smiling.im guesssing thats a good thing .apart from that im the only guy in my class shes doesn't show attitude to .she doesn't excatly strut around but keeps her distance away from the rest of the AFC's.im not a pua either but im trying my best so

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OK, here is help. Try this.
You are shy - Thats OK, everyone has been shy. All you need to understand is that YOU ARE THE PRIZE. She has to work to get you man, not other way around. Gain some confidence, go out and sarge to prove to yourself that you are interesting and confident and fun. To prove yourself that YOU ARE THE PRIZE. And trust me, when word spreads out around college that you are interesting and funny guy to be with, she will want you more. Also, with confidence, this problem will seem smaller and less problematic. Plus, she may be a good friend after all.

See, you are interesting enough, when she talks to you most than to other guys. BTW, maybe she has a twin sister .

Keep us posted man.

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dude its easier said than done. this girl makes my knees go wobbles.But anyhow ive managed to turn the situation around.i am no longer nervous but very cocky now. thing is like i said.Maybe the whole I am the prize thing will discourage her to speak to me.coz like i said at first she wud make efforts to speak to me .but i brushed her off completly.and now its the other way round :O i find excuses to go and talk to her ...and i guess the whole aura and my image scares her from coming and talking to me .well the new semesters about to start and shes not even in one of my classes..so im hoping for a miracle...and as far as other chiks go.there useless.there hot but nothing extra odinary ... playing with them is easy..but this girl is a challenge .thanks anyhow !

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