The other night:

Talked to a girl in a coffee shop w a simple opener as so what did you get. she asked the same and then I introduced myself. made a comment about her name and asked where she was from. chatted a bit. turns out shes a flight attendant and gave me her fb. But this will go nowhere

Tonight:

1.) Train station, saw a girl with a unique style then saw her looking at me. prolly noticed i was checkin her out. said Hi, didnt say anything with her earphones on. I said a Hi clearly since even another person heard it,.

2.) asked a girl hows her night bla2. wasnt feeling anything so just let it be.

3.) talked to a mature lady about nothing really.

I'm tryin out chief's outer game guide

realization:

1.) its not that bad getting ignored by someone. just move on.
2.) just be social

The last few days have been very tiring. Nevertheless, I still try to talk to people. not as much though.

12/6 - Talked to a girl on the train beside me. had low energy though coz i just woke up from dozing off. it was a light conversation, could have def gotten better if i had better energy.

Lesson: maybe having good energy when talking w someone can make a difference

12/7 - just commented on some hbs talking on a coffee shop. really had to go thats why.

12/8 - Decided not to use my ipod, made a difference. talked to the barista, said hello to more people when in a line (better than just listening to my ipod while waiting my turn to check out on the register).
- On the train, instead of like speaking in a low - toned voice like what usually shy people do; i just spoke clearly as if I were on a shop. some people looked at me; the way i looked on people chatting on the train clearly. But who cares, at least the one u are conversing w is understanding u. Just don't be too loud; there's a difference between speaking clearly and bein loud

Lesson: I decided to do this due to one of the things i remembered david wygant said that look available. sometimes you try to be preoccupied or look busy that you don't look someone that is nice to be chatted with. At the same time, when u try to be preoccupied, u are actually being oblivious to your environment. and when an opportunity strikes, be it saying hello or chatting someone; u try to look busy - think too much - opportunity lost! Right?

cool blog so far bro, i'm in the east bay as well, 21.

i saw you're post on the SF page, i'm willing to sarge, but i've been busy with finals and gettin back on track latetly, PM me ur number and we can plan something...

on a side note, people on BART are waay too picky/bitchy, especially the ones from your side lol

12/13

I simply said Hi to people. random people. and made small chat w some of em.

quick tip: if ur AA is on. try to talk to em while pretending ur doin something. that should get some momentum goin

tomorrow's objective: just talk to people again.

I'm currently watching david wygan's approaching women. I'm tryna absorb some knowledge since I didnt really read pua books. then I'm gonna start opening a bit. tryna use some lines craig gives there.

@cliffrose ei man, thanks! yeah i'll pm u. btw, yeah i kinda notice their picky but i havent talked to someone bitchy yet. wont care anyways

Love the thread man , keep it up. Feel free to ask questions in your posts.

@mi1ooo98 hey man! thanks for the support

Tryin out the "HEY whats your name, whats your phone #"

12/14

Went to the mall at night time, damn there ain't no one there. except for the people workin there and some fam. just talked to 2 girls who worked at a store. only got to the hey whats your name.

12/15

Talked to an hb8 at bart station in front of me by saying hey then just followed it up w/ a bit of small talk.

while walking I said hey to another blonde hb8 that was actually lookin at me while waitin for the walk sign. small talk as well

Tried to approach on my 30min break but AA got to me. Guess its different when ur just socializing and actually startin to approach. have to follow 3 sec rule next time.

quick tip: stop wearin those earphones!