Has slept with more dudes than I have fingers and toes?

It doesn't bug me if it's a few dudes, but it seems like every girl I run into 7+ has been with 10 or men easily. It turns me off.

Does anyone else have this issue?

Are they telling you this when they are your friends or when you are flirting with them?

Why?

This used to bother me too.. when I was 16-17 that is. Not sure how old you are, but at some point you are going to have to realize that people have sex and you aren't going to be her first or her last. Protect yourself (condom), and get over it.. Stressing about how many guys a woman has slept with before you is never, under any circumstances, productive behavior. Not only will it be a big turn off for therm, but you are going to have a ridiculously hard time finding girls who meet your criteria. Just my 2 cents

Haha. No, I'm not 16-17. I'm in my second year of College.
I just always thought it was kind of gross, or not having as much value on her part. I just really wouldn't like the fact that a gf, has slept with 30 guys prior to me. Especially, only being in their 20's.

30! and she's in her twenties? early twenties? if so... slut ahaha i know heaps of hb7+ that have slept with much less. If she likes dick though it doesn't mean she's a bad person

Dr Mooney, under what context are the girls telling you this? I think your issue isn't the answer to the question you are asking

Mainly through just getting to know them and finding more out about them.
Does it matter through what 'context' that you find out? Facts are facts.

It absolutely matters. Because when i'm building attraction successfully with woman they don't tell me shit like this. If a woman is revealing this to you , wheter you solicited it or not, then she isnt interested in you, or the relationship has gone beyond comfort and rapport. If woman are telling you things like this often then you are likely in the "friends zone" a lot more then you should be assuming you have any interest in these girls.

i've got a good word for you: she has experience.
If some1 who has experience and is attracted to you, you might even learn something how do make a woman feel awesome when they had sex with you is some of these 'sluts' woudl give you tips. Don't know if women do that, i'm ealry in the game, and only slept once with a virgin (ironically her name was VIRGINia)

thats actually not ironic thats just a coincidence.

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It would be Ironic if sh changed her name AFTER she humped you. :lol

Um dude your in college, nuff said. And I bet you most girls in college make out and kiss more guys than they fuck. But quite frankly its mostly in your head that these girls are sleeping with that many guys.

Another one of these threads.

If you are just there to have fun then why should you worry about that. Unless you are palnnig to marry anytime soon then that pointless.

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Girls fuck. Especially HB7's and hotter, who tend to be more social, they go out a lot and shit happens, they have a few too many drinks and then some guy does a good job on her, it happens she's gonna clock up some numbers. And also remember hot girls get hit on a lot, so they are going to have a decent amount of good offers, and they're just human they are going to take a lot of them.

Did you say you're in your second year of college? So i guess you're 19, so yea a girl having been with 10 I'd consider that about average, I'd only be worried if it was over 20 then yeah I'd consider that a bit whorish.

But a girl in her 20's (lets presume 25) who'd been with 30, I reckon that's pretty normal too. These numbers add up, even a girl whos not that slutty at all, over time can clock up some numbers.

If it's just a hook-up of fuck-buddies I couldn't care less how many they been with.

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Yeah, Vic..that sounds about right. Its one of those things where you just have to accept and deal.
Ive been reading your post about the POF site. I want to try it out, but in the area that I live in, has the highest std rate in our entire state. Makes me very cautious.